Yeah this post has the right of it. Your man is your protector. He's your teammate. Her teammate is just giving the ball away. Her protector is just standing there letting the enemy in. Then getting upset she's hurt. This would hurt my feelings so very much. I hope she finds someone who will protect her. ?
Thank you! I will think on this. I’ve just been so concerned with being successful that I’ve lost sight of what’s important. I know my childhood was toxic in some ways and I honestly probably have some small trauma. I’ve always been someone who wants to contribute something to the world, and very much have an all or nothing mindset. So my natural instinct is to beat myself up when I feel like I’m not “good enough.”
I meant she didn’t marry him (smart choice)
Yeah this post has the right of it. Your man is your protector. He's your teammate. Her teammate is just giving the ball away. Her protector is just standing there letting the enemy in. Then getting upset she's hurt. This would hurt my feelings so very much. I hope she finds someone who will protect her. ?
I met my husband when we were both 35. It’s all good.
Thank you! I will think on this. I’ve just been so concerned with being successful that I’ve lost sight of what’s important. I know my childhood was toxic in some ways and I honestly probably have some small trauma. I’ve always been someone who wants to contribute something to the world, and very much have an all or nothing mindset. So my natural instinct is to beat myself up when I feel like I’m not “good enough.”