Nope. I’m monogamous, and he is poly, and I knew this from the beginning of the relationship. We’ve been together for seven years, and it’s the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in, and he’s the best man I have ever known. Communication is everything. I’m not saying it works for everyone, or even for most people, but it sure works for us.
The Hot Man only works 2 out of 3 times. You're the 1 out of 3. Maybe next time she'll break out the whipped cream bikini? Or stand in the doorway wearing socks and a smile, and seductively turn around.
Joking aside, this isn't a TV show or movie. In real life, you can't just get very hot randomly and expect people to react rationally.
I'd just talk to her, let her know you're still interested, because it looks like you are, but you got really confused and overwhelmed about the potential change in relationship dynamic between the two of you.
I'd say he 100% cheating, otherwise to stop argument sake he could of just showed you but he didn't.
I think it was enjoying a picture a women sent him or was sending her a video of him..
Either way he cheating he can spin it how he likes he would of showed you whether he thought the porn made you uncomfortable or not it's better than the alternative??♀️
I’d suggest they in this case being married makes him more creepy. Not only is he hitting on a much younger woman who is obviously in a committed relationship, he’s also trying to cheat on his own SO.
I would be extremely upset too. But let's look at this objectively.
Honestly, it could have been a mistake. I've tried to delete pics on Google drive that kept reappearing and I couldn't figure out why. Having pics on multiple devices can screw things up. Google drive saves and resaves pics all the time.
Worst case scenario he knew about the pics and wanted to keep them as a token. Him looking at them doesn't mean he loves you any less or wants to get with her. He just might like looking at hot women. It is super unhealthy for the relationship since she is his ex but it doesn't necessarily mean it's a deal breaker. If this is your only issue it might be able to be resolved. Your current boyfriend isn't as bad as your ex. I imagine this is very triggering for you send bringing up past pain. Remind yourself that now is different.
Try to talk to him about it calmly. Tell him you want the truth even if it will hurt you. Tell him honesty is your number one concern. Tell him how hurt you are and how you feel betrayed. I hope you two can work it out. I'm sorry you're so stressed about it.
I've been a sex worker for 11 years, you know how I'm able to throat fuck? Because I was riddled with tonsil stones as a kid then bulimia really put an end to that gag reflex. Yeah. Hot as fuck.
Um….no! Take care of yourself. She did you a favor. She isn’t it.
Nope. I’m monogamous, and he is poly, and I knew this from the beginning of the relationship. We’ve been together for seven years, and it’s the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in, and he’s the best man I have ever known. Communication is everything. I’m not saying it works for everyone, or even for most people, but it sure works for us.
The Hot Man only works 2 out of 3 times. You're the 1 out of 3. Maybe next time she'll break out the whipped cream bikini? Or stand in the doorway wearing socks and a smile, and seductively turn around.
Joking aside, this isn't a TV show or movie. In real life, you can't just get very hot randomly and expect people to react rationally.
I'd just talk to her, let her know you're still interested, because it looks like you are, but you got really confused and overwhelmed about the potential change in relationship dynamic between the two of you.
I'd say he 100% cheating, otherwise to stop argument sake he could of just showed you but he didn't.
I think it was enjoying a picture a women sent him or was sending her a video of him..
Either way he cheating he can spin it how he likes he would of showed you whether he thought the porn made you uncomfortable or not it's better than the alternative??♀️
I’d suggest they in this case being married makes him more creepy. Not only is he hitting on a much younger woman who is obviously in a committed relationship, he’s also trying to cheat on his own SO.
I would be extremely upset too. But let's look at this objectively.
Honestly, it could have been a mistake. I've tried to delete pics on Google drive that kept reappearing and I couldn't figure out why. Having pics on multiple devices can screw things up. Google drive saves and resaves pics all the time.
Worst case scenario he knew about the pics and wanted to keep them as a token. Him looking at them doesn't mean he loves you any less or wants to get with her. He just might like looking at hot women. It is super unhealthy for the relationship since she is his ex but it doesn't necessarily mean it's a deal breaker. If this is your only issue it might be able to be resolved. Your current boyfriend isn't as bad as your ex. I imagine this is very triggering for you send bringing up past pain. Remind yourself that now is different.
Try to talk to him about it calmly. Tell him you want the truth even if it will hurt you. Tell him honesty is your number one concern. Tell him how hurt you are and how you feel betrayed. I hope you two can work it out. I'm sorry you're so stressed about it.
He has trauma…. you have choices. That is the difference.
Girl dump this dickhead.
I've been a sex worker for 11 years, you know how I'm able to throat fuck? Because I was riddled with tonsil stones as a kid then bulimia really put an end to that gag reflex. Yeah. Hot as fuck.
Kick him to the kerb.