He needs to start learning to not care so much what people think. So what if you don't carry a conversation? You aren't rude, you are answering questions. If people are uncomfortable by silence, that's their problem.
I would try to work with him for a bit like you have been. Say “I don't want to make your dad uncomfortable. Let's call him up to talk about it and see what he says.” Also less justifying to him, and more “okay duly noted. I'll work on it.” If he says he isn't trying to change you, then he should let it go after you say that.
I just keep coming back to this. The risk of breaking up is the same whether you're married or not.
He needs to start learning to not care so much what people think. So what if you don't carry a conversation? You aren't rude, you are answering questions. If people are uncomfortable by silence, that's their problem.
I would try to work with him for a bit like you have been. Say “I don't want to make your dad uncomfortable. Let's call him up to talk about it and see what he says.” Also less justifying to him, and more “okay duly noted. I'll work on it.” If he says he isn't trying to change you, then he should let it go after you say that.
You are pathetic.
Hope Aish sees through your pathetic apology.
Have you heard of negging? Where men say cruel and mean shit to put you down to make you more susceptible to them? Yeah he’s a piece of shit.