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1. spoken to a lot of girl friends and we have all been able to climax, but it's more of a once every 20 sessions type of thing.

   I think this explains the orgasm deficit. Women are just willing to settle. Men who never just accept an orgasm 1 out of 20 times.

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2. Don’t delete the photo. He may be your safe place again now, and that’s beautiful after what you have gone through together, but that doesn’t mean he always will be. You acknowledge you would be out of there if he ever reverted to old ways, if that happens you need the photo. To remind yourself that it isn’t the first time. To remind yourself why you made that promise. To remind yourself how you felt last time. And sadly,, if he was ever to become violent again, you may need that photo as proof of prior abuse.

   But maybe it isn’t a photo that is kept on your phone, where it can be randomly stumbled upon. Even by you. If it was me I would only want to access to the memories triggered by the photo, when I decided I needed to access them. I would store it in the cloud somewhere out of the way.

   As to how you handle that discussion with your boyfriend… I dunno man. Lying about deleting the photo and secretly backing it up elsewhere isn’t an option and would be a terrible idea anyway. I think you need to be able to communicate all the reasons why you need to keep the photo, in a way that your boyfriend can understand. You mention talking has failed twice… can you write him a letter? Write the letter explaining your feelings and why the photo is important and really how that violent outrage was an event that happened in your life that he doesn’t have ownership of. Go somewhere for the day, and leave the letter out for him to read. Tell him you’d like to talk on the phone after he’s read the letter.

   I know your boyfriend did his own thing as far as his recovery journey rather than a specific program (which is just as valid btw) but one of the 12 steps is about making amends for past wrongs. It’s a pretty good one I reckon. Maybe he can accept that you need to keep this photo safely away somewhere, even though it makes him uncomfortable, as a way of making amends to you. As a way of showing you that he understands the gravity of his previous actions, their impact on you, and that he has healed enough to be able to take full responsibility for these actions and their repercussions. And maybe even to express gratitude and acknowledge, the strength you showed by willingly putting yourself in harm’s way, to walk the recovery journey by his side, without any support of your own, purely out of love for him and how sacred the relationship is to you.

   Good luck both of you xx

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