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I am disturbed by the amount of women who basically gave up in trying to understand the complexity of this occurrence and just jumping on the blaming the men as never being a “real” friend. That's extremely dismissive and reducing what could have been a beautiful connection at the time and perverting it to not just themselves but to other women.
The harsh reality is that feelings and logic are not always connected. People DEVELOP feelings over time. Its normal for feelings to grow over time with familiarity. Regardless of what precedent is set. Just like FWB relationships ending when one person “develops feelings.” Its a ridiculous minimizing of human affection growing as we share more parts of ourselves. Its only natural for people to grow feelings of affection and love as we let people into our lives on deeper levels. And yes as unpersonalized as sex can get. Sex is still extremely personal. Regardless of rules set your sharing your body with another. And people are surprised when one person develops feelings of attachment lol
The guys that develop feelings for you may themselves only want friendship at the start. But overtime as they get to know more about you, your quirks,.faults personality they can develope feelings of attraction and wanting more from the established relationship. And unfortunately, if they start falling for you. The friendship either has to be put on ice or simply be broken up because those feelings have to be processed, acknowledged and let go by the individual going through them. And that process sometimes means they themselves have to walk away from the friendship.
This is the key moment where the friendship can either grow stronger or be completely destroyed. As you start to make more mature friends a lot more of them will have acquired the ability to regulate their emotions.
You know what I don't know what I'm talking about. Just ignore everything I said. But felt Its already to big to delete all this. So meh, this was just all over the place and rambled on to long ,lost its points lol
Please don't listen to this OP, I've got plenty of make friends who don't want to fuck me. I went through a similar issue a couple of years back and I hate to say it, but you learn to weed out the men who are only friends with you to get in with you.
This will keep happening to you regardless of how attractive you are. There are just quite a few guys who will try anything to get action at every age. I found just hanging around with other guys who were not single helped a lot too.
A lot of my classmates all come in and talk about thier SO and it's chill. You'll get there OP!
Focus on yourself my guy.
Focus on yourself my guy.
I've been hiding it from people for years. It's possible.
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Just walk..
You have your whole life ahead of you. Being around someone that doesn’t respect you or treat you well is a waste of your time.
confidence helps, but it's not everything. not every woman finds the same things attractive, though, so know that whatever you look like, you are someone's type. also, personality affects how women view you a TON. if you're conventionally attractive, but your personality is incredibly obnoxious, abrasive, or intensely off-putting, it doesn't matter if you're a ten, you're a two after you open your mouth. alternatively, if you're a six, but you're funny, sweet, attentive, patient, slow to anger— you are at LEAST an 8.
You’re his first girlfriend? At 37?
Um…..can I ask why?
Lol, you say “don't bother” and get mad when they listen? You refuse to communicate your wants clearly more than just “I want Christmas gifts and effort”??
Honestly, more than half of this is on you. You're closing yourself off, not communicating, expecting people to read your mind even as you VERBALLY express the opposite of what you want.
Bruh… You're 30. Be an adult and communicate appropriately. Your partner is struggling and has communicated that, but you refuse to budge. They do need to do better for your sake, but you also need to close the gap. Ffs.
Darned if I know if you made the right decision
Yes, he did. She isn't ready for a relationship if she has to being her friend over to talk over her. I think this chat lost their damn mind.
If you're concerned that she's going to freak out from a “we need to talk” text, would the breakup itself be any less stressful? But yes a courtesy text is always a nice thing to do, not that she will feel any less blindsided by it. Before the text, choose a moment where you know she is comfortable and at home. You should also try to meet up on the same day as that text so that she isn't left in a prolonged state of anxiousness leading up to the break up.
OP was talking about a relationship with his father not with his father's wife.
She's cheating and doesn't want to be with you. She's being open so you'll leave her and she won't be the bad one. Give her what she wants.
Girl, run.
I was you a couple of years ago. I dated the same version of this guy. Almost same history (long distance, me moving to be with him, the lazyness, all of it). And let me be real with you: it doesn't get better.
I stayed with my ex for nine years in what I believed was a fulfilling relationship. Only after Ieft him I realized how abused and mistreated I was by his selfish behavior. I divorced him in 2020 and life is way better now. I was a little older than you and now I am 35.
Don't waste more.time than you did..go travel, go take some space and leave this guy.
You should talk to her that doesn’t sound right
if you don't think you can afford to support yourself (if you divorce), how are you going to support yourself AND your husband if you stay together?
Oof, I honestly had not thought about that. It will just mean that my savings disappears faster :/
That sounds like a lot more maintenance than a quick shave every other day. But maybe I’m wrong
Yeah that is also partly because I don't want them trying it in the house and pissing all over the floor. Definitely a bit selfish of me.
Right, but I like going out to dance every so often & this makes me feel like I just have to give that up completely to make him happy when I’ve already moved so many mountains for this man. Honestly, I’m not sure if this one is solvable.
he needs to know who he is marrying
first maybe stop drinking. second set boundaries you dont want.
Experience on aita. She has the profile, especially with OP refusal of letting her on-line with a roommate, the absence of job and of driving license.
You should be able to tell if a woman is remotely interested.
That's hard to know if a guy is socially incompetent, as is my case.
?????
Break up with her. She is being immature and irrational.
She has been so nice and good to me though aside from this problem. Ive never been treated so good in my life tbh and I dont want to lose that. She is my best friend
He is has been violent with her and I think she still fears him
I've helped dying family members with their hygiene and whatnot because I was one of the few people who had medical training.
It fucking sucks. It is a labor of love, and there is nothing sexual about it. Leaving a person with their mess in their clothes can cause pain, infections, and other issues. OP's girlfriend is heartless.
You’re fine dude. Her friends are just trying to protect her by pushing your buttons. They’re checking to see if you respond to criticism like a psycho, with neurotic over-analysis, or with grace.
It is normal to have regrets about breaking up with someone you deeply cared for, but I think you did the right thing. The alcoholism especially was a warning sign that he has issues to work on before he gets into another relationship.
There are plenty of men out there and while you were going with your boyfriend you had no chance of meeting a good one. Now you do. Take time to grieve the loss of many good things about him and then get out and meet people.
While meeting people online is popular, don't forget the old-fashioned way, by going out and doing things. I've had friends meet their partner by falling down the stairs at school, reporting a stolen bike at the police station, waiting in line at the DMV, singing karaoke, sharing a shuttle to the airport, and picking out a good watermelon at the grocery store.
Well what does that tell you. It reminds me about a joke that was said in a speech about me on 30th year birthday.
“AC has been searching for a gf for 14 years. The problem is that he wants the perfect woman. When we asked him if he has found her – he said yes. We asked him why he is not in a relationship then and he answered – she was looking for a perfect man!”
Thanks man
That genuinely gives me some hope.
Really appreciate the time you took here ???
Or woman who considers herself a liberal for watching the Queer Eye and going to gay clubs on girl’s night, and thinks getting her husband to cut down to only one slur a day (around her) is being an activist.
Yeah no that’s a reason to break up, it’s verbal abuse. Stay broken up you deserve better
Does this girl still have a bf? Why are you the one assembling her furniture and doing art installations?
Your bf is being who he is, if you are not into that then I’d dump him and let him find someone who appreciates him for that.
Also the double standard of him paying for everything but you not wanting to isn’t cute, I’d work on that.
Of course it feels weird. Unweird sex with new partners is very rare. He had some thoughts and feelings in the middle and wanted to stop, he stopped.
If he's still into you, and you into him, explore other things than penetrative sex for a while. If you need sex for the relationship to work, that's fine too, and if he is having issues he should see a therapist about it. I mean, 99% of men and women have issues and hangups when it comes to sex with a new partner.
Kiss and cuddle. Good luck!
Say it's not happening or break it off.
Its cheating. You deal with it the same way you deal with any cheaters.
Take the cats and move out.
The fact that you wished someone goes through hell with half the information at your behest and then multiple people upvoting you tells me all I need to about the kind of people giving 'advice ' here.
My pleasure. I’m here anytime.
“maybe some practice/roleplays”
You’re still looking for her to enforce your rules. She is freezing as a survival strategy. Your disapproval and guilting (you mentioned elsewhere) is only making matters worse for her. She pacifies one man when he inappropriately touches her by freezing then she had to come to you and fawn to pacify you or you’ll be suspicious and jealous.
Work with her instead of against her.
What question was he asked?
Regarding religion, is religion important to you? And even if it's not, are you logically going to need your parents' approval regarding dating someone of similar values?
Thanks, guess one day I’ll find my compatibility too
>I'm asian, she's black, we online in California.
Racism… in California? Get new friends ASAP. This might (*MIGHT*) be acceptable if you were in the Deep South, or living in someplace like India. California – racism… nope!
Your friends are on you.
yeah, what a misogynistic conspiracy!
just happen to be curious on other ways to get all his lovely stuff.
So you met one woman irl that had a bizarre opinion and you are now basing an entire argument on this?
Cool, I can join the game: A adult man irl once told me to my face that educated women are against nature because women are just created to make children and our brain can’t handle education. So you tell me there aren’t men out there believing that. Just curious, do you go around telling men that they are bizarre and misogynistic for thinking women are lesser than them?
I had a boyfriend like this. At the same time he was saying these things to me, he was actively cheating on me. I even asked him if he wanted to just have an open relationship, since I had finally caught on, and he said no, because he didn’t want me to be intimate with anyone else. Just him. Some men will go so far to stretch what’s dubbed okay for them, but they’re so restrictive of their partner’s because they don’t want to be treated the same way
Chill, it’s all going well
Kick him to the curb. Don't enter into financial situations you are not comfortable with.. A joint account for everything will end it being policed by one or both of you, and you being questioned about buying things. Fuck that.
This might be an unpopular opinion here but I think 4 days is plenty of time for her to decide if she wants a relationship with you. You should ask.
I’m just chiming in as a woman here, women’s bodies can absolutely work that way. There are times when I am not in the mood to have sex with someone, I just want to have a moment of orgasm & move on with my day. I don’t even view sex and masturbation in the same wheelhouse, they’re different activities with different levels of emotional & physical engagement. Whether or not I feel like masturbating occasionally has nothing to do with my partner’s ability to satisfy me.
She just seems stupid after a certain point. I get it, the guy is an asshole. But she's had so many chances to walk away?