30 minutes away means no hotel required. Take her to stay in the hotel yourselves if she is wanting to try if. Honestly talk to her about it. I have to wonder why she would feel the need to stay in a hotel for an event 30 minutes away. I suspect even if not intentionally perhaps she is wondering what might happen with the colleague. It could also be she wants to get really drunk and doesn't want to be seen like that or other reasons. At least she told you about the guy and has been honest as far as we know to now. You need to talk and set boundaries if necessary.
Sit her down and talk to her.
If she's your bestie, it should be simple to explain to her how you feel.
However, it's always a double-edged sword, and if she doesn't reciprocate, you need to be strong to put your attraction aside.
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30 minutes away means no hotel required. Take her to stay in the hotel yourselves if she is wanting to try if. Honestly talk to her about it. I have to wonder why she would feel the need to stay in a hotel for an event 30 minutes away. I suspect even if not intentionally perhaps she is wondering what might happen with the colleague. It could also be she wants to get really drunk and doesn't want to be seen like that or other reasons. At least she told you about the guy and has been honest as far as we know to now. You need to talk and set boundaries if necessary.
This lady is now influencer-trash, and not a good partner for you.
Almost guaranteed she was partying or cheating on you at that hotel.
Time to start preparing for the end, my friend.
I would suggest offering OP different advice. I donโt want any. Thank you!