He calls it “touches” and it's basically constant touching and rubbing/caressing, can also be a deep massage. I'll be reading, sitting on the couch being still, playing a video game, on my phone, even sitting in the passenger seat of his car, whatever and he asks me to touch him. He acts like the touching is simple and I should just do it since I'm his boyfriend and I'm fulfilling my duties. But I basically have to be constantly running my hands across him or running him. It's just too much. I'd be willing to give him a massage every week but that's not good enough for him. If I say no he acts like I'M being abusive and neglectful.
Yeah… You're right. It's still really bad behavior and really hurts my feelings. I don't think I can keep doing this.
You’re absolutely right. That’s how it started, and it’s pretty scary realizing where I’m at now.
He calls it “touches” and it's basically constant touching and rubbing/caressing, can also be a deep massage. I'll be reading, sitting on the couch being still, playing a video game, on my phone, even sitting in the passenger seat of his car, whatever and he asks me to touch him. He acts like the touching is simple and I should just do it since I'm his boyfriend and I'm fulfilling my duties. But I basically have to be constantly running my hands across him or running him. It's just too much. I'd be willing to give him a massage every week but that's not good enough for him. If I say no he acts like I'M being abusive and neglectful.
Yeah… You're right. It's still really bad behavior and really hurts my feelings. I don't think I can keep doing this.