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You mentioned she had issues communicated her dislike before. She might have always had issue with it. In fact your communication with her on this issue was absolutely terrible. You didn't adress the real problem which is that she was effectively lying why she isn't doing the backrubs for you. You should have encouraged her to be open with her feelings on the matter and if my suspicion is correct then validate her feelings and accept her reason.
It would be bad, if she wasn't willing to do things for you in general, and was selfish and neglectful. However if it's this specific point then drilling her to do it while it is clearly making her uncomfortable is your fault.
This does not excuse the ex thing, which alone is a reason to distance yourself or even break up with her.
You mentioned she had issues communicated her dislike before. She might have always had issue with it. In fact your communication with her on this issue was absolutely terrible. You didn't adress the real problem which is that she was effectively lying why she isn't doing the backrubs for you. You should have encouraged her to be open with her feelings on the matter and if my suspicion is correct then validate her feelings and accept her reason.
It would be bad, if she wasn't willing to do things for you in general, and was selfish and neglectful. However if it's this specific point then drilling her to do it while it is clearly making her uncomfortable is your fault.
This does not excuse the ex thing, which alone is a reason to distance yourself or even break up with her.
Consenting adults can do what they want. Only the wife made promises to someone about their conduct. Anything else is just illogical moralizing