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Your reluctance to even talk to him about it is a big issue imo. It doesn't sound like he respects you or your father at all. Do you really want to take care of this guy the rest of your life? He doesn't sound like an equal partner at all in the relationship.
The real question is why you don't think you deserve better. Masculinity isn't about appearing masculine, it's being firm and setting boundaries. It's standing up for others but also, yourself. It's knowing your worth, and your comments about how you're willing to overlook her attempts to define your masculinity for you, means that you don't know you have the right to choose your own masculine characteristics. You say she's demasculinizing you, but allowing the relationship to continue without proper respect and affection is you demasculinizing yourself. You aren't defined by only masculine traits, all people have both feminine and masculine traits within them. Seems to me, she's missing the traits of a true loving partner. If she has such an underlying lack of respect she will continue to wound and abuse you in an attempt to get a rise out of you. She needs counseling to discover why she feels the need for extreme masculinity in her life and why she feels she needs to prod that trigger to such an extreme. Her wanting you to act out like a caveman is definitely a red flag that she's got twisted views of what true masculinity looks like and what it signifies.
HahHa no. He’s lying and and abusive. That combo gets thrown around too much on Reddit but if everything you have laid out is accurate, in this case it’s true.
Look, your boyfriend is the kind of person that twists your head up when, in reality, you are clear and correct in what you think you are experiencing. He’s melodramatic, lies, and has a victim complex that transfers into threats of self harm. He knows you are a caring person and uses that against you.
He needs some therapy/help for sure – but it’s up to him if he gets it. You cannot have a healthy or satisfying relationship with him for the foreseeable future.
Your reluctance to even talk to him about it is a big issue imo. It doesn't sound like he respects you or your father at all. Do you really want to take care of this guy the rest of your life? He doesn't sound like an equal partner at all in the relationship.
The real question is why you don't think you deserve better. Masculinity isn't about appearing masculine, it's being firm and setting boundaries. It's standing up for others but also, yourself. It's knowing your worth, and your comments about how you're willing to overlook her attempts to define your masculinity for you, means that you don't know you have the right to choose your own masculine characteristics. You say she's demasculinizing you, but allowing the relationship to continue without proper respect and affection is you demasculinizing yourself. You aren't defined by only masculine traits, all people have both feminine and masculine traits within them. Seems to me, she's missing the traits of a true loving partner. If she has such an underlying lack of respect she will continue to wound and abuse you in an attempt to get a rise out of you. She needs counseling to discover why she feels the need for extreme masculinity in her life and why she feels she needs to prod that trigger to such an extreme. Her wanting you to act out like a caveman is definitely a red flag that she's got twisted views of what true masculinity looks like and what it signifies.
HahHa no. He’s lying and and abusive. That combo gets thrown around too much on Reddit but if everything you have laid out is accurate, in this case it’s true.
Look, your boyfriend is the kind of person that twists your head up when, in reality, you are clear and correct in what you think you are experiencing. He’s melodramatic, lies, and has a victim complex that transfers into threats of self harm. He knows you are a caring person and uses that against you.
He needs some therapy/help for sure – but it’s up to him if he gets it. You cannot have a healthy or satisfying relationship with him for the foreseeable future.