Wow. I’ve shared toilets with people with dicks, and they never left a puddle. Does he know that he needs to use his hand to guide his steam? Perhaps he needs to stand close to the toilet so the last dribbles go in the bowl. Ask him to see if there’s a YouTube video available to teach him how to use a toilet. I mean, millions of men can pee & aim. Why can’t he? Does he have depth perception problems?
Maybe you can paper train him like a puppy. Put some newspaper on the floor in front of the toilet where he likes to leave a puddle. Perhaps that will show him that he’s peeing on the floor or will teach him to clean up his pee.
You might ask his mother why she didn’t completely potty train him.
Seriously, I would break up with someone so dirty and lazy as to leave a puddle of urine on the floor. My urine-soaked socks would land on his person every time I stepped in his puddle.
Does he leave puddles of pee wherever he goes? Every time he pees at someone’s hose, he’s leaving his filth behind?
He should be ashamed of his selfishness & laziness.
Yes he talks about his family all the time. When they have family parties I never get invited. But I have picked him up before from his moms house. But I am not welcome to go inside
Oi my dad's late 50s and we thoroughly enjoyed Lockwood & Co, he got me onto it. Sometimes “young adult” media is entertaining to all ages, that's when it's truly good.
So today I went shopping in a different area of the city without my phone for a couple of hours. I stopped responding for like 6 hours because I just left it at home and went out. „Suddenly “ I ran into him. He claimed that he needed to buy something too. Idk how he was able to find me without my phone
I’m a person who lives in reality. And sadly I’ve seen too many lost/found pets that never got back to their owners because no one will do anything. There is a reason ‘possession is 9/10ths of the law” is a saying.
Firstly he didn't tell you he went, so if he was really being fair he would have told you his expectation ahead of time.
Secondly it doesn't matter because you still had to go yesterday since it was your day. And he didn't tell you he was going so you could save yourself the trip. Both are unacceptable.
Thirdly, he's very well lying, and you can see that he isn't trustworthy because he openly manipulated you here in this small conversation by trying to make it into a larger issue to distract from the point that it was his day to go and he didn't go. He started trying to bring up an idea of fairness and put you down and make you feel worse about yourself in the relationship so that you would shut up and let this go and you'll forget what you actually needed done. Over time eventually you'll learn to just never ask for anything because he'll make it so difficult and painful to say anything that you learn to give up ahead of time just to “appease” him. That's not a relationship. He's taking advantage of you, and he knows it, and he's planting the seed to make it worse and worse til you don't even realize how easily you were duped. It will keep growing.
Your boyfriend is not trustworthy and not honest with you. And he knows it, and he doesn't care, so long as making you feel bad about yourself means avoiding his responsibilities and getting what he wants. He is exploiting you.
He’s 46. You are not his mother. Take your phone back. It’s his responsibility as an adult to keep his phone in working condition and deal with the consequences of not having one. Seriously.
You have tried your best to communicate with your boyfriend, who has proven to not care about it at all. If I doesn't benefit him, then it is a no go.
OP, you know what you have to do here. If he isn't gonna choose you, then you'll have to do it. Take care if yourself and move on from this pit you have ended up in. You aren't a preacher, but you have been preaching for this guy who acts deaf.
I wish you well and I hope we will read an update about just you?
Yes. She was doing something instead of contacting you.
She is a flight attendant, chances of your relationship working out have always been slim.
I don't think there is a point in continuing. In relationship like this honesty is everything. The very fact she is upset you are inquisutive is already a red flag. In ldr, and relationship like yours secrets inevitably breed insecurity, her attitude is unacceptable.
She is likely cheating emotionally or also physically doesn't matter. You can't know, and she won't tell you. You should cut your losses, and break up.
Yeah so he knows you wouldn’t like it and knows you wouldn’t consent and did it anyway. ???
Wow. I’ve shared toilets with people with dicks, and they never left a puddle. Does he know that he needs to use his hand to guide his steam? Perhaps he needs to stand close to the toilet so the last dribbles go in the bowl. Ask him to see if there’s a YouTube video available to teach him how to use a toilet. I mean, millions of men can pee & aim. Why can’t he? Does he have depth perception problems?
Maybe you can paper train him like a puppy. Put some newspaper on the floor in front of the toilet where he likes to leave a puddle. Perhaps that will show him that he’s peeing on the floor or will teach him to clean up his pee.
You might ask his mother why she didn’t completely potty train him.
Seriously, I would break up with someone so dirty and lazy as to leave a puddle of urine on the floor. My urine-soaked socks would land on his person every time I stepped in his puddle.
Does he leave puddles of pee wherever he goes? Every time he pees at someone’s hose, he’s leaving his filth behind?
He should be ashamed of his selfishness & laziness.
Lmao, nevermind just online alone instead of using highschool as a pickup location for your virginal brides.
Yes he talks about his family all the time. When they have family parties I never get invited. But I have picked him up before from his moms house. But I am not welcome to go inside
If he’s bringing discussion back to class topics then sounds like he’s not interested, or sits next to u because you’re smarter than him
Oi my dad's late 50s and we thoroughly enjoyed Lockwood & Co, he got me onto it. Sometimes “young adult” media is entertaining to all ages, that's when it's truly good.
So today I went shopping in a different area of the city without my phone for a couple of hours. I stopped responding for like 6 hours because I just left it at home and went out. „Suddenly “ I ran into him. He claimed that he needed to buy something too. Idk how he was able to find me without my phone
That sounds consistent
I’m a person who lives in reality. And sadly I’ve seen too many lost/found pets that never got back to their owners because no one will do anything. There is a reason ‘possession is 9/10ths of the law” is a saying.
She just said that’s all he does..
Yeah it still applies.
Firstly he didn't tell you he went, so if he was really being fair he would have told you his expectation ahead of time.
Secondly it doesn't matter because you still had to go yesterday since it was your day. And he didn't tell you he was going so you could save yourself the trip. Both are unacceptable.
Thirdly, he's very well lying, and you can see that he isn't trustworthy because he openly manipulated you here in this small conversation by trying to make it into a larger issue to distract from the point that it was his day to go and he didn't go. He started trying to bring up an idea of fairness and put you down and make you feel worse about yourself in the relationship so that you would shut up and let this go and you'll forget what you actually needed done. Over time eventually you'll learn to just never ask for anything because he'll make it so difficult and painful to say anything that you learn to give up ahead of time just to “appease” him. That's not a relationship. He's taking advantage of you, and he knows it, and he's planting the seed to make it worse and worse til you don't even realize how easily you were duped. It will keep growing.
Your boyfriend is not trustworthy and not honest with you. And he knows it, and he doesn't care, so long as making you feel bad about yourself means avoiding his responsibilities and getting what he wants. He is exploiting you.
He’s 46. You are not his mother. Take your phone back. It’s his responsibility as an adult to keep his phone in working condition and deal with the consequences of not having one. Seriously.
You have tried your best to communicate with your boyfriend, who has proven to not care about it at all. If I doesn't benefit him, then it is a no go.
OP, you know what you have to do here. If he isn't gonna choose you, then you'll have to do it. Take care if yourself and move on from this pit you have ended up in. You aren't a preacher, but you have been preaching for this guy who acts deaf.
I wish you well and I hope we will read an update about just you?
Yes. She was doing something instead of contacting you.
She is a flight attendant, chances of your relationship working out have always been slim.
I don't think there is a point in continuing. In relationship like this honesty is everything. The very fact she is upset you are inquisutive is already a red flag. In ldr, and relationship like yours secrets inevitably breed insecurity, her attitude is unacceptable.
She is likely cheating emotionally or also physically doesn't matter. You can't know, and she won't tell you. You should cut your losses, and break up.