Okay, so compromise means two people coming together for some agreement that they both get what they want. He has what he wants and you have no car.
A discussion would be to ask him what he is compromising on.
I would also do a financial analysis of how much he is earning per hour, adjusted for fuel, tyre replacement a car service/oil etc.
Does that earning per hour for doing errands for other people equate to an hourly salary? Make sure to include all the hours he works so that the per house is accurate like for like.
I would then ask him what does he plan to do for his future when people cannot afford personal shoppers as he has no control over what he can earn each day or month. Does that ubereats include dental or medical cover? Is your car covered for work use? What happens if someone hits him?
You are also essentially paying for him to use the car instead of you. So those costs are also part of his costs as if it was his car he would have to pay the purchase cost and insurance.
Not only that but as a young male with no dependants he could do anything and those moms and dads or people with other time issues might well need insta shopping as a source of food and money, which he could earn in other ways.
Now is when he can build his experience in other areas of work, to learn jobs that will give him an idea of what he doesn't want to do or skills that he didn't know he was good at.
Ultimately though he is taking away your resources to suit himself and that isn't okay.
I understand that with anxiety and depression that life is harder, so what is he doing to help himself get better? Small steps are needed to improve resilience and get out of the comfort zone a little. It won't happen if he doesn't push himself a little to try new things. That I do know from personal experience.
It's probably because she wanted you make a further move that night and you didn't. She said she didn't want anything serious. She probably just wanted to bone you and realized after you didn't even try and do that that there wasn't much other point to talking. Possibly she felt a little rejected too. The exact why won't be known, but I'd be willing to bet on it being something as simple as that.
Yeah, but how can I make him stop doing it? I've told him so many times and it looks like he doesn't get it or something
Okay, so compromise means two people coming together for some agreement that they both get what they want. He has what he wants and you have no car.
A discussion would be to ask him what he is compromising on.
I would also do a financial analysis of how much he is earning per hour, adjusted for fuel, tyre replacement a car service/oil etc.
Does that earning per hour for doing errands for other people equate to an hourly salary? Make sure to include all the hours he works so that the per house is accurate like for like.
I would then ask him what does he plan to do for his future when people cannot afford personal shoppers as he has no control over what he can earn each day or month. Does that ubereats include dental or medical cover? Is your car covered for work use? What happens if someone hits him?
You are also essentially paying for him to use the car instead of you. So those costs are also part of his costs as if it was his car he would have to pay the purchase cost and insurance.
Not only that but as a young male with no dependants he could do anything and those moms and dads or people with other time issues might well need insta shopping as a source of food and money, which he could earn in other ways.
Now is when he can build his experience in other areas of work, to learn jobs that will give him an idea of what he doesn't want to do or skills that he didn't know he was good at.
Ultimately though he is taking away your resources to suit himself and that isn't okay.
I understand that with anxiety and depression that life is harder, so what is he doing to help himself get better? Small steps are needed to improve resilience and get out of the comfort zone a little. It won't happen if he doesn't push himself a little to try new things. That I do know from personal experience.
Why don’t you drive?
It's probably because she wanted you make a further move that night and you didn't. She said she didn't want anything serious. She probably just wanted to bone you and realized after you didn't even try and do that that there wasn't much other point to talking. Possibly she felt a little rejected too. The exact why won't be known, but I'd be willing to bet on it being something as simple as that.
The first time I've seen it referred to as art. Nice.