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This literally sounds like my ex husband, all of your posts do. And he also recently bought a house with his new gal. I hope it ain’t you cause honey you’d need to be running. You need to run anyway. This guy is clearly very toxic.
I am not sure what advice you need. You nailed it. How you want to proceed is a question only you can answer. I am man, so I will never understand what a woman must feel like in a situation like you described after coming home. But I got furious on your behalf even from reading it.
I would be very very uncomfortable with that scenario as a whole.
I'm sure he would be too if the tables were reversed. I would tell him how you feel. Not in an aggressive, accusatory way, but a gentle sharing of feelings.
This has to be talked about as it is probably at the center of all your thoughts and can affect your interaction with him and your trust in him.
Respect her.
If she wants to take action, and she says she'd really appreciate your help and support, do whatever's in your power.
If she wants to just forget it, leave it alone.
Only reason you should bring it up is, if she comes to you upset because of something new, you can very gently ask her whether she wants to say something to her new boss so that the old one isn't allowed near her anymore.
That's it. If she says no, then it's no.
After this is just speculation, as we don't have the details:
Rape is not as black and white as is portraited. There are good chances that, if you hear both people, one will say it was rape, and the other will say it was consensual, and spin a credible tale. Women are often taught to be nice. To not react badly to other people “being nice” to them. In certain circumstances, it's extremely very hot to balance that with firmly refusing unwanted advances. It's very possible that she doesn't want to tell her coworkers that she couldn't do it, and that she “let” this man coerce her into something she didn't want. Maybe she doesn't want her new boss to see her as a victim. Maybe she doesn't want to think of herself as a victim, as someone who can't stand up for herself when needed. Maybe she's angry because, in hindsight, she thinks she should have done things differently, and at the same time she knows that the guy is the one in the wrong, and how it's unfair is it that he is the AH yet she is the one who should have done something to prevent what happened. Reporting sexual harassment is very often nude. Not everyone wants to sit with a stranger and share something very painful, with the fear that the first questions asked will be “Did you fight? Did you smile? Did you follow him willingly? Did you like it?”. Being molested is nude enough without having to defend choices that you made in a moment of discomfort, in freeze mode, when you were told all your life that you should have been fighting or fleeing.
I'm not saying that any of this is right, I just want to share some perspective as to why she might be unwilling to report the harassment.
I feel that a lot of the time the movements that claim to find beauty everywhere really mean 'you are allowed one step away from the norm, or possibly two, as long as you do it in a very hot way.'
So you see 'plus-sized but not too plus-sized' models, or 'disabled, but in a discreet way that doesn't affect the face and upper body too much' or 'not white, but with features white people find appealing' or 'gender nonconforming, but sexily' coming up on top of the list, because they are otherwise conventionally attractive enough that their differences can be forgiven.
I'm not going to pretend I'm immune – I'm not really capable of finding the beauty in everyone either. But what I try to work on is the idea that a person doesn't have to be beautiful to be a worthy human being. (Emphasis on try – I'm not a perfect enlightened being, just a petty, ordinary human who tries to counter the judgy inner monologue with reminders to myself that it's okay for people to just… be who they are, as long as who they are isn't 'a prick.')
Based on your previous responses to other commenters, you’re clearly trying to defend an untenable position of suggesting that if OP chooses silence it implies consent.
That is a barely veiled form of victim blaming. Family dynamics are complex and the conflict between speaking up and keeping the peace that OP is expressing is typical for these situations. Regardless of OPs ultimate decision for how to handle this, silence does not imply consent. Not in this situation or in any other.
I was recently in a similar situation for almost half a year. I'm sorry you have to go through this, it absolutely sucks.
Sounds like borderline Personality disorder – take that with a grain of salt – but it is a textbook example. You are better off without her
Alternative view. Do you have trouble taking no for an answer. Like if he doesn’t want to share something do you persist and force him to come out with it. Because this sounds like something where he’s reacting to you and your behaviour and not your question if that makes sense.
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quick mental arithmetic Ohhhhh lordy.
Yup, living on your own or with a friend will be really good for you. It's great to find your own feet and it helps you find your own voice too
I know what all those words mean individually but put together in that specific order they make no sense.
First of all, don't subject your daughter to your sex life. That will breed contempt.
A child that shares ancestry with you popping up within the same geographical location is hardly a crazy thing lol.
(23F, 44M)
LOL, no.
He was supporting you, he’ll be fine, just get the abortion
I didn’t even get past the title to know that oP is a troll. I can’t imagine some of the dms they are getting just from posting this.
She had plans. You're going on as if she's out with him every single night and witholding him from you. It was one evening and you throw a temper tantrum? And you have the nerve to dictate to her that she's not allowed out with the baby? You are ridiculous.
Yes, it sucks that you are working such long hours but how is that her fault? She brought the baby to see her family. Something you clearly can't be bothered to engage with given that you're refusing to attend the family party.
I bet if she left you with the baby all the time you'd soon change your tune.
You need to grow up. You can't even handle the replies here from people without having a tantrum. Pathetic behaviour.
She could just talk and take this pain away
She owes you nothing. Leave her alone. It is over.
Well it comes across to me that you are still seeking that desire for affirmation. After all, you seem to want her to acknowledge you have changed. That is the desire for further affirmation. I worry you are contradicting yourself, downplaying how much of this is about her reassuring you it is okay.
That seems a good life to online. Go on-line that. Don't anchor yourself to her if that is the case.
Your girl has dragged herself out of her previous existence and is now living a good, productive and worthwhile life. That she openly and honestly took you home to meet her folks is a testament to her honesty and decency. She is a treasure OP and you should bless the day that you met her.
As for her parents standards and living conditions. These are lifestyle choices that they are perfectly happy to make and to share. If we were all the same. Life would be very boring indeed.
This is not her. It’s not who SHE is. You either accept this or you move on. ‘Shocked of Rochester’ doesn’t cut it my man. Good luck.
These are imperative years when it comes to growing and becoming who you are. Don’t let that fire be extinguished. Fucking flourish.
This might sound a little harsh, but I’d expect these sort of questions from someone 10 years younger than you, I feel like you’re being a bit naive here.
Everyone gets swept off their feet at the start of a relationship. That’s nothing new or really that special and you should be very careful trusting all the excited feelings you get. It’s called the honeymoon phase for a reason – you ignore everything bad and overlook anything that could be a problem.
The fact that you’re already worried about being quite different and whether anything would last should be the feelings you pay attention to. Especially as you see each other so rarely. There’s also a pretty significant age gap there which more often than not can cause problems. A man that dates significantly younger women generally isn’t looking for a deep and meaningful connection.