I agree, don’t think she was being malicious either, my wife was just upset because of the argument, she wasn’t ready, she wasn’t wearing a bra (shirt on though) and left her sports bra on the couch, you couldn’t tell it was a bra at a glance at least but as I mentioned, no warning. It’s routine that my mom waits in the car while I bring stuff inside. I’ll usually leave my toddler with her in there too but this time it was too cold outside for him.
We had sex
I think she has misplaced her anger as a means of forgiving herself in lieu of her SILs forgiveness.
It’s much easier to be mad toward someone who is mad at you, than to reflect on why they’re mad at you at all.
I agree, don’t think she was being malicious either, my wife was just upset because of the argument, she wasn’t ready, she wasn’t wearing a bra (shirt on though) and left her sports bra on the couch, you couldn’t tell it was a bra at a glance at least but as I mentioned, no warning. It’s routine that my mom waits in the car while I bring stuff inside. I’ll usually leave my toddler with her in there too but this time it was too cold outside for him.