You feel like he’s using you because he is and he doesn’t see or doesn’t care that this is wrong. He’s an adult, not a kid, and you aren’t his parent. You can’t change a person so I feel like it’s doubtful this situation will improve.
You know what your options are and what to do—decide that this is an acceptable life for you and continue funding him while he gets to be irresponsible and unaccountable or decide that you need and deserve better and get rid of him.
That's the definition of arguing, my dude
You feel like he’s using you because he is and he doesn’t see or doesn’t care that this is wrong. He’s an adult, not a kid, and you aren’t his parent. You can’t change a person so I feel like it’s doubtful this situation will improve.
You know what your options are and what to do—decide that this is an acceptable life for you and continue funding him while he gets to be irresponsible and unaccountable or decide that you need and deserve better and get rid of him.