Jesus, what a passive aggressive approach. In the US (and I presume most other western countries) small claims court is for exactly this. No lawyers allowed, small amounts of money.
If this is really just about money to start a family as you say as opposed to retribution and punishing her then file a claim and serve her, sounds like you have ample prof of the agreed upon debt.
If the whole money thing is you putting a shiner veneer on wanting to hurt her because she hurt you, sure, drop a dime on her.
There is no such thing as closure. Your girlfriend needs to accept that and move on.
Jesus, what a passive aggressive approach. In the US (and I presume most other western countries) small claims court is for exactly this. No lawyers allowed, small amounts of money.
If this is really just about money to start a family as you say as opposed to retribution and punishing her then file a claim and serve her, sounds like you have ample prof of the agreed upon debt.
If the whole money thing is you putting a shiner veneer on wanting to hurt her because she hurt you, sure, drop a dime on her.
I wouldn't care at all but both my partner and I are older and both have exs that are still good friends.