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1. No, you would not be wrong in breaking up with him for the reasons you cited. You deserve a better partner.

   However, if for some reason you decide to stick it out then do not buy a home with him. Instead buy it on your own and have him contribute by paying you rent. Have a lawyer write up a lease or cohabitation agreement that makes it crystal clear that he has no home ownership rights even if he's helping with the expenses. That way if you guys break up in the future the splitting of the home ownership will be a non-issue and you'll just be able to kick him out and keep your home.

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2. You're being obtuse, bub. And grow the fuck up regarding language and 'rhetoric'. I don't have to sugar coat this shit for you. A good friend wouldn't go out of their way to sugar coat something just in the interest of, well, I don't know, appearances sake? Fuck that, I appreciate bluntness from my friends.

   She dug a hole (didn't inform OP of guest at a sensitive time of day), then kept digging (insulted his ability to be perceived as the husband she wants), then dug some more (the doesn't 'deserve' dinner thing), and again (is still angry hours later). He, at worst, blew off a guest.

   There is this middle ground walking BS you are talking about, which has appeal at times, but not here. You can try to keep an even keel all you want, but you have to be honest with your spouse that her behavior was fucked. She was way the hell out of line and he was, at worst, mildly impolite to a guest. Again, a guest and for just a small moment of time at that. She is doing this to her husband now over a prolonged evening.

   So, break it down like this.

   What does this whole incident say about him: He can be slightly impolite when tired and feeling bad.

   Now her: She is very inconsiderate to her own husband, apparently cares very little about his own emotional and physical health, and will be verbally and emotionally abusive towards him if he doesn't perform in the ways she wants in order to apparently impress friends, which might apply to other situations.

   So yeah…. there are some deep ass concerns here assuming she can't come around and see how fucked up her behavior was. And while, yeah, OP could have done things to avoid the situation (not necessarily even should have, but could have), but was her response proportionate to his actions? Clearly no. So what's the lesson for OP? Walk on egg shells the rest of his life because minor infractions against her desired behavior was cause huge issues?

   No, fuck this shit bub. She is holding a grudge and attacking him when he doesn't fell well. All because it causes her image problems with her friend? Jesus, if I was her friend I'd be totally understanding. Her husband came home from a rough day and doesn't feel good. Like cool, I'll peace out, no big deal…. Anyway, that's enough words here. If you don't get it, you won't ever.

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3. Act as if neither exists, don't say hello don't even make eye contact.

   He doesn't deserve shit, and work on getting out of there.

   I'd do the same to him, even if it not a date maybe a friend that would hang out with you there so your ex sees it, make him as uncomfortable as possible so he moves out ??‍♀️

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4. It is, I’ve lived it, and it’s hot bloody work. It’s only possible now because he’s been sober for 15 years and remains so. I would not tolerate it all again mind you; he’s nearly died twice from liver failure and he was functional and working during it all so it doesn’t have to look ‘that bad’ from the outside at all. I was ready to leave after he lapsed the first time (it was awful, I was so supportive and pretty much set myself on fire to keep him warm) but he nearly died again a second time so felt I couldn’t leave at that point. It finally sunk in and he stopped drinking but looking back I went through hell and there would have never been a good time to leave.

   Long term? We are settled and happy, no kids, I don’t drink at home at all and his friend groups are not heavy drinkers. It does permeate every aspect of life (greeting cards are boozy, celebrations are boozy, Christmas and holidays are boozy) be prepared to prepare for every event! You will need support from everyone, especially in the early days, and then longer term. Take care and go in with open eyes xx

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