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Give her a nice bracelet and wait
I think the bigger question is why are you so hot on yourself?
What are you doing to these poor tortoises
Not every detail. She is afraid of something, she is keeping an specific thing she has the feeling that could destroy the relationship. I think that thing she is afraid of will end up blowing up in a future.
I’m guessing this isn’t the first time OP’s intercepted his girlfriends nights out. He obviously thinks that there’s something wrong with his girlfriend going bar crawling. So why would she tell him? She probably knew he’d raise hell about it.
You just made things so much worse for your girls because you amplified a false accusation, your boyfriend can now be a poster boy for misogynist idiots who say false accusations can happen to male victims.
Believing someone is about hearing them nothing more nothing less.
I think what she's scared of is losing him or the thought of their relationship changing drastically cause I'm stuck in a kinda similar situation rn
You're not. BF is an asshole.
To add on, keep an eye on her and her activity, no need to go investigator mode but just be a bit weary over suspicious behavior
The fact that you went back a year when you were supposed to be helping her find out why her latest bill was so high shows you were snooping! You have trust issues!
She wants to see how things go with this guy and if they go tits up, she wants you as a backup plan. A security blanket. Leave that trash behind and find someone who sees your as their #1.
I’m breaking things off with him first thing tomorrow. I will also be terminating the pregnancy so I can move forward in life without any resentments and put this horrible chapter behind me!
I see your point, that makes a lot of sense out into perspective
As someone who's been through this, courts are VERY aware of all the fuckery parents do towards each other. Parental alienation is very much an established thing, and there are plenty of professionals who specialize in dealing with the damage. It's not just about custody. I've seen the courts put an order of non-disparagement in place, then watched a mom be held in contempt for violating it. Court-mandated therapy, requiring y'all to communicate through a family app that records everything, established call schedules, the list goes on.
You are not alone in dealing with this. There are plenty of us who felt the same hopelessness when we turned to the court but came out the other side with well-adjusted kids even with the high-conflict coparent still in the picture. At least consider finding a lawyer for a simple consult on possible options. If the lawyer charges a fee, it's usually a couple hundred or less.
Also, your ex won't say it directly, but she is afraid of being replaced. All your happy moments with your gf are her loss. Right now, the simplest method for dealing with your situation is to talk it out and agree on boundaries for both of you when it comes to your child and new partners. Your child doesn't need a new mom. He needs his parents' undivided attention right now. Making sure he remains your focus might help reduce your ex's animosity.
Go to court, but also keep a record of EVERYTHING she is saying amd doing! She cannot wothhold your kid like thks! Consoder also requesting the courts for your kid to see a therapist where he can open up about what his mom says
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I’m buying a house soon with my s/o, but we’re not putting him on the mortgage so next time we buy a house he can have the mortgage and qualify as a first time home buyer. He’s going to contribute to my mortgage payments 50/50, and I’ll be putting him on the deed as a beneficiary in case I die so he doesn’t lose out on our investments if that happens.
I’d say it’s reasonable for her to contribute financially to the home, considering she’d have to pay rent to a landlord if you were both renting. I don’t think she’s entitled to money back if you break up because she’s not on the mortgage, so it’s essentially rent.
I feel like 80% of reddit is porn tbh. Look up anything at all and I bet there's a porn subreddit for it. You can find a whole list of pron subreddits on Google.
You're welcome.
I’m a poly guy. I’ve actually had to consider asking my partner to close up too. Sometimes self esteem is great, others it’s a hot Fuken mess.
I had some not great breakups and some heavy life shake ups. The loss just left me so hollow. I’d isolated myself out of my poly community, and stopped seeing anyone outside “us” for almost a year. When I did some soul searching, I realized I’d felt replaceable and expendable. Seeing them happy while feeling miserable and unwanted was just devastating. I was unable to mitigate my own disappointment and it was becoming resentment.
Then it dawned on me. I’m was only feeling this way, because I was finally feeling like me again. I enjoy being a poly/ENM guy, so I did the work to get back to being comfortable.
You are being a hypocrite. You said you would never support a cheater yet you are taking Sarah's side. My guess is their marriage was over when Sarah cheated on John with his friend and they probably stayed for the kids. I know 10 years is a long time but some people don't get over it. I bet their marriage was already in shambles and it finally got over when John met the other lady. Both of these people seem broken. Don't let their shitty relationship affect yours.
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I feel like I'm losing my mind here. There are so many comments about the husband sleeping with other people but I've re-read the post three times now and cannot find that written anywhere. Did OP edit the post or something?
My health is though and his son's attacks are damaging to me
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Even if he attempts to improve or make a change to his behaviour (that he also acknowledges as ‘stupid shit’), it’s clear the damage has been done. I feel like you should give yourself the chance to find someone who will respond maturely to you if you want to communicate and talk to them about something that has upset you, and who will love your body as it is simply because it’s yours.
It makes me mad that he is turning it all on you and making you feel like the unreasonable one.
Thank you for your comment. I agree that our relationship is unhealthy and it is both of our fault. We need a heart to heart, you're right. As worried as I am to do this because of what might happen, it can't continue. I appreciate you saying I am being a good husband but having lied to her I don't feel that way.
No This is all victim blaming abuse apogist nonsense.
You are not responsible for others mental health. Don’t let yourself be miserable with someone. It’s hot, but you have to get the courage and just tell her you want to break up.
Sometimes things like that get better and other times they don't. Maybe he can go to sex therapy so he can get out of his head. It's up to you if you like him enough to stay even though he can't perform.
if he doesn't care that i leave him, wouldn't he also not care if he cheats on me?
Sorry but your wife is making a mountain out of a molehill.
150 pounds is quite thin for 5’9” though. That’s less than I weighted at 5’10” at your age, and looking back at photos of myself now I am so mad I thought I was fat. I looked underweight and if I had been able to see my body clearly I would have walked with earth-shaking confidence, razing whole villages with a single glance.
You can talk to him about healthy weight and encourage him to seek out media that portrays women of all sizes, but in the end it’s probably not worth it. A lot of times, men who say this sort of thing are trying to control you, trying to damage your self-esteem so you’ll think you have no other boyfriend options, or they’re pretty deeply warped by unrealistic images of women.
Just find a new boyfriend who loves you and is attracted to your body exactly like it is now AND how it’ll be in a few years (my bod did constant morphing and boob-acquiring until my late 20s, and then it did further morphing when I gained a bunch of weight in my 30s, but hopefully that last part won’t happen to you).
You know pregnancy kills right?
9 weeks is nothing, termination at 9weeks is a lot safer than birth
Honestly I hope he does leave her. She would deserve it.
You will be ten years older and angry at your partner because of what you are missing out on. This is a big thing. If you don't have an open relationship with someone to satisfy your physical requirements, then you may need to be best-friends with her and find someone who is going to offer that physical attachment. It's not fair to either of you. This is a big, big missing piece and that's not even starting on the “do you want children or at least a child” road.
I promise that if I thought I was in any danger I’d take it a lot more seriously than I am, but I genuinely don’t feel any physical danger! It’s more sexual comments etc which after 10 years working in a male dominated industry I can deal with, even if I shouldn’t have to!
“It was an abusive relationship”
Didn't you just sum it up yourself ? That's your answer right there.
I bet the comment section isn't what OP expected lol
Thank you. After all the wonderful messages I got on here, and speaking with my partner and some friends, I ended up writing back to Dad, basically saying “I love you, I love the relationship you and Alex have. I like Alex's family, but family isn't a word I'm ready to use yet.”
Well, he did admit that he's okay with sexual assault so I guess he does have that going for him.
“Whoa let's not throw around the term Sexual Assault all willy-nilly here.”
Proceeds to describe a normal comment as harrassment.
Is it possible there have been and you've just chalked them up to him being 'clueless', ' forgetful', 'oblivious', 'naive', and the like? Do you find yourself having to 'give him the benefit of the doubt' a lot?
I just wanted some empathy and reassurance even if it’s a lie, just to say he messed up truly and didn’t enjoy seeing another woman like that. He can’t even give me that, he just fights me
So you’re a stalker.
This is stalking.
What is stopping two fully developed adults from getting out of mom’s house?
LOYAL MEN DO NOT CONSIDER HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE. Even in a small discussion. I can tell where this will go. This will become an open relationship and you'll get more action then him and he will realize how he effed up a 7 year long relationship. And it feels like he might have already cheated on you
I was one of those posters on the other question you mentioned. I am glad either my history, or others like me, gave you some perspective to help solve his issue.
It is still very unsettling. I don't know if he feels relief or dread, or if he flips flops between, but I would be absolutely terrified to inform someone IRL. Your boyfriend is very brave.
I only look at Age not even read the text. Yes, you did right to break up. He was too old for you
Echoing everyone: your feelings and comfort weren’t considered, or at the very least they were consistently overlooked, as a child. Don’t continue this pattern of abuse (reliving our childhood trauma, amirite???) in the present.
Your mom being in denial doesn’t change the material facts. Don’t let her feelings control your actions.
If you don’t feel a conversation would be productive, have you thought about writing it out? If it was me, I’d take a few days to put together a succinct email (don’t over explain or justify — it sounds like she’s committed to misunderstanding you, don’t waste your energy) that concludes with something like, I know that this will be upsetting, and I hate that Bro’s unrelenting mistreatment of me has continued to cause you, and me, pain. I love you, mom, and hope you have a wonderful time. I’ll check in after the wedding.
Biggest takeaways: 1. Do not apologize 2. Do not make it your fault. This is cause and effect: bro was an abusive dick your whole life, duh, the effect is not wanting to share space with people who are abusive dick’s. Cause and effect. Your mom not “understanding” is not your responsibility. Her feelings (and “understandings”) are her own. 3. Don’t leave room for persuasion. Don’t answer when she calls or respond when she texts. Convey your boundary (“we’ll talk after the wedding”), then enforce it by not being available to talk until after the wedding.
If it were me, I’d send a quick text first to convey: email because I don’t want to fight and reiterate the boundary: talk again AFTER the wedding.
don’t be confused. i’m giving you little moments not everything.