Well they are twins, I could think that they could keep being co dependent their entire lives. But beside that, as a twin I think they might unhealthily co dependent on each other. This is a problem for them and this might be the reason why they don't have a good relationship with the “extra child”. I wonder if in this situation they are a more problematic version of the bigger brother being jealous of the existence of the younger child.
But anyway, they might just be the toxic ones not including OP as you are saying.
Find yourself someone who wants to have children with you after divorcing her.
Well they are twins, I could think that they could keep being co dependent their entire lives. But beside that, as a twin I think they might unhealthily co dependent on each other. This is a problem for them and this might be the reason why they don't have a good relationship with the “extra child”. I wonder if in this situation they are a more problematic version of the bigger brother being jealous of the existence of the younger child.
But anyway, they might just be the toxic ones not including OP as you are saying.
but here’s the important thing:
you can’t change her. she has to choose to change.
if she won’t change, dtmfa. that kind of negativity has no place in your life.