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If you feel guilty enough that it causes you to act strangely, he will notice that something is off and get suspicious. Better to tell him the truth and have him hear it from you than if he starts investigating and finds out on his own.
On the other hand, why did you allow this to happen in the first place? Are you happy in your relationship? Do you have needs that aren't being met which are causing you to stray? Probably worth examining that.
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Naw this is Bad take IMO. It wasn’t done on purpose and If the shirt was so important he should’ve made sure to pack it and replace it on his own dime. I’m not responsible for the things people leave at my place and I hope OP cuts contact with petty friend that values a shirt over mental health and well being of someone he supposedly is a friend to. Never mind the costs of AirBnB if staying at his place for free he should go replace his own shirt, passing the responsibility onto someone else is immature.
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I hope it works out for you. I know that my overall feelings are really impacted by my partner's participation level at home. Do not consider it “helping” when you are doing things around the home — it's your home, too.
Fair Play by Eve Rodsky offers an excellent approach to dividing labor.
Yikes. Your wife did the right thing. She was honest with you, went about getting a transfer, and is not seeing or speaking with the coworker since she’s working from home now. It seems like she’s taking all the right steps. Developing feelings or a “crush” sometimes happens when you are around someone you get along with a lot. But ACTING on that crush is something else. I’ve had a “work crush” before, but guess what, I got over it. It lasted a few months, we never communicated outside of work. I loved my husband more than anything, so I quickly realized it wasn’t worth it. The fact that you’re so upset about this makes me think you’ve secretly wanted a divorce all along.
If someone asks you to sign your name on for a house that early into a relationship, I say run for the hills. I don't know if that was serious or if they just wanted that to get your financial info, but that would be a red flag for me.
You will regret debasing yourself that way. Do not do that to yourself 'cause he is a dog. Find your peace by ending your relationship and taking control of your life back.
Your revenge should be living well after he has been disposed of. At the end of the day, you still have to live with yourself. Get therapy after dumping him and get your head back in the game.
Yeah like I said I haven't reached out to her at all since I got my closure over a month ago. We were only in contact because of the cat. But then she came over with the cat after the procedure and said she wanted to be friends. I haven't tried to contact her since then
It’s never better to ignore your emotions and shove them down. You deserve to feel safe expressing your feelings and you should be supported by your partner.
I get some people don't see pets as a family or 'worth crying over' (I 100% do). But has he ever raised questions about anything else? Because if he doesn't even want to be with you when you grieve. I don't see why you stay.
I would approach this as he needs to change jobs to have time for himself. I would also point out that stress takes years off of your life expectancy. If he doesn't go for the checkup then you need to pull out the big guns of not being able to be the father of the children when they get married because work killed him.
If the doctors visit doesn't come with a liver check then he needs one, likely he is prediabetic, early liver disease and who knows what. All that could get better with some life changes.
and since I am petty I would put a big picture of how many small bottles make a big bottle and how many calories that he is consuming in alcohol every day on the garage wall add in a how long a walk one bottle is to work off those calories. I doubt it would help matters but it might get the message in.
That is a ridiculous argument. But we can use the same premise of his logic to argue back… by what you state you bring in 2/3s of the income, so why should his child get a bigger cut when he isn’t contributing as much as you?
What you do is dump him and then don't respond to his calls. If he wants you then he had to take steps and one of them was to be consistent. No relationship can stand on/off/on/off again. either you're the woman he wants or not and if he has to talk himself into it .you're a nice girl, you two have spent so much time together to waste it you come from a good family. ETC. it won't work and he'll come to resent you.
Yeah you’re young, but it’s not like she’s known you since you were 12 and watched you grow up. That’d be weird, but honestly yours peers from different years. Same path different journeys. Take a leap, have some fun, be safe!
I think the biggest flag here is that she immediately brought it up afterwards as if some sort of “ha got you, you patriarchal fuck” or something, she deliberately waited to tell you after having sex. That's the red flag, not the HPV.
And the young woman would want him with over 30 with his dadbod and saggy testicles?
Please, just leave him. He is trash. His view are disgusting. Do you really think that he won't cheat on you and then comes with “it is in the nature of the man”- shit. I can see him wanting to be a father and then complain that your body is now not the same. And that you won't have sex wight after birth.
1) I’m sorry that I made you feel ——- when I ——-. 2) I’m going to work very hot to make sure that doesn’t happen again. I plan to —-. Does that sound right to you? 3) is there anything else I can do to make things right between us?
The kind of thing you describe does happen sometimes. Most people would be semi-understanding about it. The friend. The trouble. The driving here, driving there. It was a lot. Her insecurity is showing…and of course she feels insecure. Her kids were removed from here. She was in the hospital. There probably aren’t too many people who wouldn’t feel insecure.
I hope she is getting appropriate care for her mental illness and is working toward getting her children back. It must be horrible.
Tbh, my mother was the same, as in she will usually be shut it but often needing to pee won't interupt her having a conversation with me either in person or on the phone (not when other people are about).
It's slightly comforting that someone else's mother / stand on future mother in law does it but she would never dare Infront of my husband lol
No, this isn't true. She can say what she wants to try to use this as a way to hold you, but that's not love or even like for you. That's her wanting you to shower her with love, not voice versa, or she'd respect your wishes. Leave her be, she's got support, you're just going to make things worse by being loving if you're truly done.
If you feel guilty enough that it causes you to act strangely, he will notice that something is off and get suspicious. Better to tell him the truth and have him hear it from you than if he starts investigating and finds out on his own.
On the other hand, why did you allow this to happen in the first place? Are you happy in your relationship? Do you have needs that aren't being met which are causing you to stray? Probably worth examining that.
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Naw this is Bad take IMO. It wasn’t done on purpose and If the shirt was so important he should’ve made sure to pack it and replace it on his own dime. I’m not responsible for the things people leave at my place and I hope OP cuts contact with petty friend that values a shirt over mental health and well being of someone he supposedly is a friend to. Never mind the costs of AirBnB if staying at his place for free he should go replace his own shirt, passing the responsibility onto someone else is immature.
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A partnership is when two people are equal. You don’t have an equal relationship.
He’s not your partner, he’s your master and you’re his slave.
I hope it works out for you. I know that my overall feelings are really impacted by my partner's participation level at home. Do not consider it “helping” when you are doing things around the home — it's your home, too.
Fair Play by Eve Rodsky offers an excellent approach to dividing labor.
Yikes. Your wife did the right thing. She was honest with you, went about getting a transfer, and is not seeing or speaking with the coworker since she’s working from home now. It seems like she’s taking all the right steps. Developing feelings or a “crush” sometimes happens when you are around someone you get along with a lot. But ACTING on that crush is something else. I’ve had a “work crush” before, but guess what, I got over it. It lasted a few months, we never communicated outside of work. I loved my husband more than anything, so I quickly realized it wasn’t worth it. The fact that you’re so upset about this makes me think you’ve secretly wanted a divorce all along.
If someone asks you to sign your name on for a house that early into a relationship, I say run for the hills. I don't know if that was serious or if they just wanted that to get your financial info, but that would be a red flag for me.
Also lol, how dare you have your flight delayed.
You will regret debasing yourself that way. Do not do that to yourself 'cause he is a dog. Find your peace by ending your relationship and taking control of your life back.
Your revenge should be living well after he has been disposed of. At the end of the day, you still have to live with yourself. Get therapy after dumping him and get your head back in the game.
Hahahaha, ngl when I read that part, I pictured a whole ass chicken and it made me laugh. Thanksgivings dinner is even better.
Yeah like I said I haven't reached out to her at all since I got my closure over a month ago. We were only in contact because of the cat. But then she came over with the cat after the procedure and said she wanted to be friends. I haven't tried to contact her since then
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It’s never better to ignore your emotions and shove them down. You deserve to feel safe expressing your feelings and you should be supported by your partner.
That’s sort of how I’m feeling. I don’t know if she was letting it happen on purpose or not but It definitely shouldn’t of happened.
That’s sort of how I’m feeling. I don’t know if she was letting it happen on purpose or not but It definitely shouldn’t of happened.
I get some people don't see pets as a family or 'worth crying over' (I 100% do). But has he ever raised questions about anything else? Because if he doesn't even want to be with you when you grieve. I don't see why you stay.
I would approach this as he needs to change jobs to have time for himself. I would also point out that stress takes years off of your life expectancy. If he doesn't go for the checkup then you need to pull out the big guns of not being able to be the father of the children when they get married because work killed him.
If the doctors visit doesn't come with a liver check then he needs one, likely he is prediabetic, early liver disease and who knows what. All that could get better with some life changes.
and since I am petty I would put a big picture of how many small bottles make a big bottle and how many calories that he is consuming in alcohol every day on the garage wall add in a how long a walk one bottle is to work off those calories. I doubt it would help matters but it might get the message in.
That is a ridiculous argument. But we can use the same premise of his logic to argue back… by what you state you bring in 2/3s of the income, so why should his child get a bigger cut when he isn’t contributing as much as you?
Yikes.
What you do is dump him and then don't respond to his calls. If he wants you then he had to take steps and one of them was to be consistent. No relationship can stand on/off/on/off again. either you're the woman he wants or not and if he has to talk himself into it .you're a nice girl, you two have spent so much time together to waste it you come from a good family. ETC. it won't work and he'll come to resent you.
Yeah you’re young, but it’s not like she’s known you since you were 12 and watched you grow up. That’d be weird, but honestly yours peers from different years. Same path different journeys. Take a leap, have some fun, be safe!
Anyone who makes fun of someone else’s appearance is not worth your time or energy.
I think the biggest flag here is that she immediately brought it up afterwards as if some sort of “ha got you, you patriarchal fuck” or something, she deliberately waited to tell you after having sex. That's the red flag, not the HPV.
And the young woman would want him with over 30 with his dadbod and saggy testicles?
Please, just leave him. He is trash. His view are disgusting. Do you really think that he won't cheat on you and then comes with “it is in the nature of the man”- shit. I can see him wanting to be a father and then complain that your body is now not the same. And that you won't have sex wight after birth.
That is not a good person. She’s icky-ful
yeah, like i’m overreacting. which makes me feel like it’s not that big of an issue, when it really could be
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You aren't immature. Joy doesn't have an age limit. Congrats on the business!
Thank you I appreciate your response (: I’m sorry about your trip blew up, I hope you can work it out and feel better /:
The ring is passed down the biological line. It's yours.
There are multiple parts to an apology.
1) I’m sorry that I made you feel ——- when I ——-. 2) I’m going to work very hot to make sure that doesn’t happen again. I plan to —-. Does that sound right to you? 3) is there anything else I can do to make things right between us?
The kind of thing you describe does happen sometimes. Most people would be semi-understanding about it. The friend. The trouble. The driving here, driving there. It was a lot. Her insecurity is showing…and of course she feels insecure. Her kids were removed from here. She was in the hospital. There probably aren’t too many people who wouldn’t feel insecure.
I hope she is getting appropriate care for her mental illness and is working toward getting her children back. It must be horrible.
Tbh, my mother was the same, as in she will usually be shut it but often needing to pee won't interupt her having a conversation with me either in person or on the phone (not when other people are about).
It's slightly comforting that someone else's mother / stand on future mother in law does it but she would never dare Infront of my husband lol
This is why you record it.
OP currently has no proof.
So there is already the possibility that they are not going to be believed.
If OP had proof then they should definitely go straight to dad
That was my first thought ??
We enjoy traveling, watching movies, doing art work (painting) and going hiking.
I'm trying to make a plan for a date this weekend. Since we hadn't had one in a longer time.
No, this isn't true. She can say what she wants to try to use this as a way to hold you, but that's not love or even like for you. That's her wanting you to shower her with love, not voice versa, or she'd respect your wishes. Leave her be, she's got support, you're just going to make things worse by being loving if you're truly done.