If this was my partner, I'd have the divorce papers ready by the morning. My God, what a terribly cruel thing to say to your partner in such a vulnerable moment on top. OP, looks may change with age and your wife will feel this all too real in 7-10 years too, but a good character and a humble Herat will always stay. A rotten character will never be balanced by good looks.
I have no advice on making it better. But there must be other ways for you to pleasure him? If you don't want to do it, you don't have to do it and he should understand. You tried and you don't like it.
Therapy. It’s a really good thing for you to be aware of this, and to be so grateful for your gf. Now you need to communicate how important she is to you and start baby stepping your way to a healthy expression of love. Maybe set some goals for yourself- do one nice unexpected thing for her a week. Make sure to hug and kiss when you come together/leave each other. Tell her she looks pretty every few days. Check out the main love languages and try them out- maybe some will be comfortable for you. Ask what her love languages are and try to do something in that realm even if it isn’t your comfort spot. Go to talk therapy to learn how to open up to her. Good luck, you seem very sincere.
Cut your losses. There's people out there who will treat you better.
If this was my partner, I'd have the divorce papers ready by the morning. My God, what a terribly cruel thing to say to your partner in such a vulnerable moment on top. OP, looks may change with age and your wife will feel this all too real in 7-10 years too, but a good character and a humble Herat will always stay. A rotten character will never be balanced by good looks.
I have no advice on making it better. But there must be other ways for you to pleasure him? If you don't want to do it, you don't have to do it and he should understand. You tried and you don't like it.
She could be perimenopausal?
Call the police immediately! This is statutory rape sex with a minor. Also move out asap! He will bring you down with him!
Prioritize getting out of his fathers house. Then try to get counseling.
You’d rather be an accomplice to child sex crimes and pedophilia? Wake up
Therapy. It’s a really good thing for you to be aware of this, and to be so grateful for your gf. Now you need to communicate how important she is to you and start baby stepping your way to a healthy expression of love. Maybe set some goals for yourself- do one nice unexpected thing for her a week. Make sure to hug and kiss when you come together/leave each other. Tell her she looks pretty every few days. Check out the main love languages and try them out- maybe some will be comfortable for you. Ask what her love languages are and try to do something in that realm even if it isn’t your comfort spot. Go to talk therapy to learn how to open up to her. Good luck, you seem very sincere.
The long term friend gets my vote.
Leave. Cheating, then blaming you. Fuck that.
If she was assaulted where is the police report and the lawyer
Fake