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I mean 26 is very young to get married still. For example in the U.K. (where I’m from) the average age of marriage is 32. I personally am in the camp of everything pre-25 years old shouldn’t count as your brain isn’t fully developed until then. There’s a reason that the divorce rates for marriages at younger ages are a LOT higher than say after 30.
If OP was in an 8 year relationship at 33 say then yeah sure there’s definitely some issues there and I can see why she would be upset she hasn’t got a proposal yet. I got married at 27, even for me that was young and I probably would’ve waited if I could.
However, sounds like OP’s BF has a few other issues that would make me question this relationship and a proposal is the least of OP’s relationship issues.
Might still be. Talk to the doctors in the NICU.
So this guy is just manipulative and guilting ypu into sex. That's bullshit and you should call him out on it. You don't owe him sex and him guilting you is destructive to the relationship.
To be clear, lots of people guilt their partners regardless of sex.
Yeah he's holding a green flag and she's waving a red flag. I hope she figures shit out.
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She showed you she didn't respect you it's best not to waste any more time on her.
There are guys out there wondering why they are in relationships. I wish I could direct them to posts like this. I don’t have long term relationships. I have casual relationships only. This is insanity. Way to kill off the relationship completely. I would consider breaking it off with her.
I told them before and after this never to do it if they didn’t want to but it still happened I do my best to teach them that they have full control if they don’t want to, but I don’t think they truly realised. Absolutely not putting the blame on them, they’re new to this and it was my responsibility to ensure their safety because I’ve had more experience and I failed. But I think now they’ve gotten it which is good
she's 32
Cheating is a risk in any relationship, not just a non-monogamous one.
You need to start communicating with him about what you want and need. Of course you don't want sex with him, with his approach. You're being treated like a fleshlight. Why would you want to have sex in that context? Ew.
I think this is a specific definition of swinging which will not describe all swingers and that's the sort of thing that really needs to be addressed ahead of time. I hung out at a swingers club because the music was good for awhile and I expected them to be emotionally disconnected but most folks who talked to me were warm and kind and treated it more as a friends with benefits arrangement.
I'm not saying you're wrong, but I am saying that's a very broad brush you're painting a lot of folks with and that's not going to work.
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Might be a case of “Learned Helplessness”. I was in a similar situation once. My ex-husband and his family were quite wealthy, whereas I grew up in a low-income, single-mom household. I was a stay at home mom of a 2yo and wanted to leave desperately but had nowhere to go. He capitalized on this by treating me poorly, thinking I’d never leave the comfort of financial stability.
My days became bleak and dreary and I stopped looking forward to the future. One day I imagined my daughter dating and marrying a man just like her father, and I was terrified. She didn’t deserve that! But what are her options? Hide behind her fear and stay while slowly dying inside? Or face the fear of the unknown in a challenging situation but surfacing as a stronger woman?
When I shifted my perspective, I became empowered. I realized that if it wasn’t okay for her, then it’s not okay for me. I am someone’s daughter. I was once a little girl and I didn’t do anything to deserve this treatment. I realized I needed to leave for her, but also myself. I summoned a huge amount of courage by imagining that I needed to protect my daughter and the little girl inside myself.
It was easily the most difficult challenge in my life but honestly the HARDEST part was deciding to leave…and then following through. Everything after that was easier because by leaving, I was already a happier person.
I’m now sublimely happy, married to an amazing man. I often feel grateful for my life now. I have a calendar reminder every year of the day I left, and I want you to have the same. Find some courage by getting your dog out of that situation, or imagine your niece or little sister in your shoes. What would you want for her. Because you are her and you deserve better.
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It depends on what sector of technology, but for IT stuff at least in many languages a lot of the terminology is loan words from English or a rough translation. Like the word for software in Spanish is literally just software.
Adultfriendfinder?
He is looking for a prostitute
Why the hell a 20 year old says yes to marriage to someone she has dated for a couple months is beyond me, but your boy is looking for a woman or boy to pay for sex. If you are ok with that, stay
I am sorry to say this,
he started to tell me how beautiful I would be pregnant
is not how people in relationships discuss having children. That sounds quite manipulative and controlling.
That, plus the quite large gap in your ages rings all the wrong bells. This does not sound like a good place to be.
Probably because you opened up and he went oh shit ive done stuff with this guy. It was eating him up inside knowing so?
The fact he told you shows he cares and doesnt want to lie to you.
I’m sorry, friend. Sometimes we fall into ruts without realizing it. Get some sleep, and hopefully when you sit down with her and discuss this, she’ll see how very hot it is for you and commit to making changes. Best of luck!
Move on, no-brainer time.
A lot of people are saying the DJ career is a joke, but if he is really good, then he could make a lot of money. My question is, is he good at his job? Have you seen him work?
I smell bullshit here. Force her bluff and tell her that's blackmail for sex. Tell.her that you think she should report him to the police to see what her response is. If she balks, then she doesn't want to get him in trouble or force the truth out. If she says ok, go with her to hear the account she gives the cops.
Why should I be ashamed? I know it was wrong of me, but I was only following my feelings. It DID make me feel uncomfortable and upset when she told me about her new bf. I can't help feeling the way I do.
It is what it is. It’s super unhealthy for anyone to ask you to stop speaking to your family. If you choose that- totally different story but no one can choose that for you. Sorry life is shitty sometimes.
This is a moral issue question. Is he married or gf ? If not married open season because he ain’t married. But this can’t be answer by no one , yiu ok with it ?
He made the right choice, a friendship since the second grade, or someone he just met….
I forgot to say that in my country, the state gives a little money when you don't have any income, but it's not a lot.
But you're right, he could spare enough money if only he sacrificed just one night at the bar. It's frustrating. I'm really not his priority.
I'm wanting to make it work, but if he doesn't make any effort I don't see the point in continuing this relationship.
He said that flowers wither and that that doesn't seem logical, so i proposed maybe do other things that don't require plant slaughtering, like maybe buying a flower bearing plant . To that he seemed very elated but that was 2 years ago and i have never seen a plant or any mention of it since that convo. Other times he said he didn't have money so i said well you don't need to buy or pluck flowers, maybe you could make some paper ones or if that's not your skill set to craft things, maybe you can just write cute notes. Which i am yet to see. ??♀️
From OP's other comments and responses, I feel very safe in declaring him to be a dickhead.
If he has no other reason other than that, I'd be worried that this will continue even after you get married.
I mean, you asked her and she told isn’t interested and why. Your options are to respect that, or to end the relationship to pursue other things.
Thank you. That’s the best advice I’ve been given. I definitely would rather have a constructive discussion about all of that like you said.
Just this woman hates “talking about things” she has admitted to not liking face to face discussions about hot to talk about topics, because she feels “attacked”
I honestly think she’s been with so many toxic people that didn’t give a shit to sit down with her and fix things, that she’s becoming that way. They’d let her cry alone until she would get over it.
I’m not that way. So I’ve always attempted to actually talk and come to a solution about every issue, but I’m always met with resistance. We had a 40 minute discussion about all of this, and of course she starts saying how difficult it is, she’s having anxiety, it’s getting “heated”, etc. so it’s always cut short.
Which is why I get so frustrated and started to make passive aggressive comments like that. Pure frustration. I know it was petty of me, but it just got to that point.
Sounds pretty reasonable to me. Be sure to tell him why, though, he needs to understand that his actions have consequences.
It's really sus that he lied about it like that. He could definitely be using it to DM people and hide it from you. I think it's worth at least asking him about
As a bi woman, my partner would dump me if I asked him that & I would support that decision. However, I would also dump him for asking & he would agree there too!
My point being, by my relationships standards, yeah this is a sucky mentality. But you seem more open sexually, and if you’re with someone that you’re compatible with, maybe they will be more like you.
Have a serious think about if it’s appropriate to ask based on what you already know about him, though. If you think he might not be okay with it, then be prepared for serious relationship problems to pop up for even asking.
If you can't trust him enough to tell him this then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him.
Relationships are built on respect and trust. It sounds like you don't trust him and he won't respect you.
Love isn't enough to make a relationship work.
Honestly, maybe he’s a nice guy and all but I would be out. Good luck.
Breasts size does increase when she will be lactating post child birth.
How is she not lying by omission?
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That’s how perspectives work, we both have one and it’s good that you know both sides of the story, you can have an informed opinion
Believe what you want, but the guy is literally delusional even before this sleep/alcohol thing. Might as well believe in the tooth fairy.
You are correct in saying affair. Sorry. If there was nothing to hide, you would not be kept in the dark.
I feel for you.
Yes I think I should keep the fond memories I have from this relationship, but end it there instead of idealizing a situation that will never be. Thank you for your advice 🙂
What you do is take a very very hot look at the way you treat yourself. There's a gross lack of basic self-love and self-respect to the point of madness. You wrote out thousands of words about ten years of absolutely inexcusable behavior by your husband, you KNOW he deserves zero respect and never deserved a day of you.
But here you are asking what you should do. Where's this level of insecurity and lack of self-worth coming from? You're an incredibly capable, respectable, super-achiever of a woman, who succeeds at life despite dragging along a dead weight that keeps sabotaging you at every step.
Screw him. You shouldn't be thinking of him at all. Why are you doing this to yourself?
I know that love is a choice you have to make and I have made it.
The thing is, that vow required the participation of someone else.
It sounds like the person who posted about him in that group was just curious if anyone else was dating him… hence, “are we dating the same guy”. I mean you do you and maybe there is more to the story from her POV but it doesn’t sound like in this particular instance he’s sus. Has he done anything you make you suspicious? Anything tangible, outside of not being a good texter/busy with his kid and this singular Facebook post? Not to go all psychoanalysis or whatever, but could you be self sabotaging here?
Yeah. “When I drink, I try to ruin four lives at once.” Maybe go easy on the booze and get some therapy.
Don’t meet with her. Back away and avoid drama. The wedding is over and you don’t need contact with her anymore. She was drunk, and a drunken mind speaks a sober tongue. She was drunk and honest. She is not a friend. Don’t waste any more time with her.
And please…all of you…lay off the booze before someone ends up in jail.
Original comment was talking about “teaching him” and “motivation to change”
If leaving is the only solution than none of that matters