You got pretty much nowhere, no offense. You can’t force someone to open up to you, but you can pick the right environment, vibe, and approach to make that person feel safe opening up. Getting drunk and telling him how he feels isn’t the way. You both deserve some clarity and transparency with each other at this point, or you’ll both end up really hurt. Communication is key and it’s a learned skill.
Research using “I” statements rather than “you statements.” For example, instead of “you get sad when we have sex” maybe say “I feel like something upsets you after we have sex. How do you feel afterwards?” or some other phrasing that focuses on what you feel, and inviting him to share what he feels without you labeling that emotion for him based on your assumptions. “I” statements are a better way to communicate overall, look into it!
OR he I grooming her to pimp.out to his friends as a trophy . Star 80. AKA Dorothy Stratton
Maybe what he follows doesn’t have anything to do with what he is attracted to
Just go. He’s not gonna be man enough to say something to you there.
You got pretty much nowhere, no offense. You can’t force someone to open up to you, but you can pick the right environment, vibe, and approach to make that person feel safe opening up. Getting drunk and telling him how he feels isn’t the way. You both deserve some clarity and transparency with each other at this point, or you’ll both end up really hurt. Communication is key and it’s a learned skill.
Research using “I” statements rather than “you statements.” For example, instead of “you get sad when we have sex” maybe say “I feel like something upsets you after we have sex. How do you feel afterwards?” or some other phrasing that focuses on what you feel, and inviting him to share what he feels without you labeling that emotion for him based on your assumptions. “I” statements are a better way to communicate overall, look into it!