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I've only stayed friends with exes I didn't have feelings for. If i was wanting to give the relationship an honest chance, I would because that person's insecurities would be something we work out together. If i didn't care one way or the other, no. It depends who matters more. I wouldn't have personal one on one contact with the ex but they'd have to give some serious valid arguments to give up all my friends. I would only do it if they were willing to do the same for my insecurities. That's just me and ik relationships aren't easy and requires same effort from both.
I hate to reply this quick but I gotta prove u wrong. Me and my friend had an argument and all that just ended with me cutting him off. The thing she did wrong was you just don’t go for friends it’s almost like a code and everyone knows that idc how old you are you just don’t do that type of grimy shit. And if I did talk to other girls it wasn’t her friend of 5 years. And we’re not dating more just friends with benefits but SHE wants to do it all over again I have no intention of going down the road again
Just to confirm does she have any kid(s) with her ex, or any joint assets or a pet? If not why on earth is she entertaining her ex, rather than just blocking him?
To be honest she doesn't sound like she's ready for a relationship and yours sounds more like a rebound relationship, where she's still trying to figure out if she can have one more chance with her ex or not.
Breaking up every week is a huge red flag and every time you get back with her you're setting yourself as someone that she can walk over anytime she wants.
So from what I gathered from their first texts she came on to him. He was like how old are you? She goes just turned 18 last week And he’s like oh shit I’m 30 never mind Then she’s like well we can still hung out as friends Then 3 months into texts she’s referring to him as her boyfriend
But as a 26 year old I couldn’t possibly imagine hanging out with someone that’s 18, what would we even have in common. I mean I think the weirdest part to me is that he went to prom with her.
First, make sure you are safe. Will you lose access to education and housing if you speak up now? If it's at all a risk wait until you graduate and are independent. Yes you should tell him but keep yourself safe and your future safe first and foremost
Do not combine finances with this man. It's totally reasonable to have a shared pot, and then keep your own for your own. This has nothing to do with a lack of trust, and has everything to do with protecting yourself and having agency in the relationship.
I try but i think i dont often get much feedback to things i say as such or it is very long pauses that mean the conversation fissles out before anything could be said . I dont mean to be bad but id like an argument or a meaningful back and forth . I guess one reason i want to make it work is they arent a bad person , they are good , they mean well in other aspects , and we’ve been going so long and i feel that its my fault more for changing
I get what you're saying but that isn't completely true. I didnt expect her to wait around no, but we were 'separated' for 2 months. During this time we still saw each other and slept with each other on occasion. No, I didnt want her to be sad, and I never gave her a nude time about the other guy. Yes, I regret taking that step and blame myself, but I was in a dark spot and it seemed like the right thing to do at the time.
Also, I appreciate the feedback, but I really was just looking for advice on how to handle the current situation. I know that I fucked up, and I'll take the criticism, I didnt come here for validation, I posted for advice on what is happening now.
I've only stayed friends with exes I didn't have feelings for. If i was wanting to give the relationship an honest chance, I would because that person's insecurities would be something we work out together. If i didn't care one way or the other, no. It depends who matters more. I wouldn't have personal one on one contact with the ex but they'd have to give some serious valid arguments to give up all my friends. I would only do it if they were willing to do the same for my insecurities. That's just me and ik relationships aren't easy and requires same effort from both.
I hate to reply this quick but I gotta prove u wrong. Me and my friend had an argument and all that just ended with me cutting him off. The thing she did wrong was you just don’t go for friends it’s almost like a code and everyone knows that idc how old you are you just don’t do that type of grimy shit. And if I did talk to other girls it wasn’t her friend of 5 years. And we’re not dating more just friends with benefits but SHE wants to do it all over again I have no intention of going down the road again
And if i say “i cant give that” to her, what would you think she would say? “Ok?” Or “ i cant be your wife either”??
Thank you. One of the same comments on here.
That's your daughter, bro. You need to come through for her, when no one else will. That's what dads do.
I know you are young, and this is a daunting task. There are going to be a few times in your life where you have to man up. This is one of them.
Imagine how scared she is.
I have a daughter, I would burn the world down for her.
Just to confirm does she have any kid(s) with her ex, or any joint assets or a pet? If not why on earth is she entertaining her ex, rather than just blocking him?
To be honest she doesn't sound like she's ready for a relationship and yours sounds more like a rebound relationship, where she's still trying to figure out if she can have one more chance with her ex or not.
Breaking up every week is a huge red flag and every time you get back with her you're setting yourself as someone that she can walk over anytime she wants.
You dating a very insecure loser. You’re too young be wasting your life on an old loser.
If you want it and are able to well care for 2 children… keep it.
You know why you keep it. And tgat you keep it out of love. Not to spite the childs daft father.
How is it even important what he thinks? You are not there for his gratification or validation.
Make your own choice. And stick to your guns!
Girl BFFR. Don’t let that slide. You’re worth more than someone who can’t see it (your worth).
And he doesn’t even see your worth just because he came back to you. It’s probably what’s just most convenient for him.
ALWAYS have high standards and never feel bad about them.
Girl BFFR. Don’t let that slide. You’re worth more than someone who can’t see it (your worth).
And he doesn’t even see your worth just because he came back to you. It’s probably what’s just most convenient for him.
ALWAYS have high standards and never feel bad about them.
What’s best for her life, evidently, is also to not get the surgeries.
So from what I gathered from their first texts she came on to him. He was like how old are you? She goes just turned 18 last week And he’s like oh shit I’m 30 never mind Then she’s like well we can still hung out as friends Then 3 months into texts she’s referring to him as her boyfriend
But as a 26 year old I couldn’t possibly imagine hanging out with someone that’s 18, what would we even have in common. I mean I think the weirdest part to me is that he went to prom with her.
First, make sure you are safe. Will you lose access to education and housing if you speak up now? If it's at all a risk wait until you graduate and are independent. Yes you should tell him but keep yourself safe and your future safe first and foremost
No. You don’t get to tell me what to do. Sorry.
And no. You’re an idiot
Yes, I definitely wanted to meddle there, I feel like trash and I don't want to do it anymore.
I don't want to just walk away, because just as friend, she's pretty nice and that's something I wouldn't want to fuck up (probably already did).
Should I talk to her or just move on and let it die?
Do not combine finances with this man. It's totally reasonable to have a shared pot, and then keep your own for your own. This has nothing to do with a lack of trust, and has everything to do with protecting yourself and having agency in the relationship.
I try but i think i dont often get much feedback to things i say as such or it is very long pauses that mean the conversation fissles out before anything could be said . I dont mean to be bad but id like an argument or a meaningful back and forth . I guess one reason i want to make it work is they arent a bad person , they are good , they mean well in other aspects , and we’ve been going so long and i feel that its my fault more for changing
I get what you're saying but that isn't completely true. I didnt expect her to wait around no, but we were 'separated' for 2 months. During this time we still saw each other and slept with each other on occasion. No, I didnt want her to be sad, and I never gave her a nude time about the other guy. Yes, I regret taking that step and blame myself, but I was in a dark spot and it seemed like the right thing to do at the time.
Also, I appreciate the feedback, but I really was just looking for advice on how to handle the current situation. I know that I fucked up, and I'll take the criticism, I didnt come here for validation, I posted for advice on what is happening now.