I dunno if I like this advice. What's important to her is what makes her happy yes, and as her partner he should want her to be happy and feel good about herself.
But attraction, physical attraction IS important in a romantic relationship. Suppose he got a face tattoo or sharpened shark teeth, it would be most important to him if he were happy with it yes and as his partner she should want him to feel good about himself too. But in both cases if that change made them lose attraction then it doesn't make them selfish/in the wrong for not wanting to continue the relationship.
It might be a mild hardly noticeable change or it could be a drastic one. And I agree he should give it time to see how it heals and if he adjusts to it. However in either case he can be happy for her but not want to continue a relationship with her.
Living your best life is the only revenge worth pursuing. I think your idea of leaving while he's away is smart. Get a lawyer to handle custody agreements.
Errr?! Why don’t you stop instead? Why do you feel entitled to look at her phone or search history?! She’s entitled to privacy & autonomy- you don’t get to supervise her every move & thought.
Talk about it in front of his wife. It will be a real tell on their boundaries and relationship.
I dunno if I like this advice. What's important to her is what makes her happy yes, and as her partner he should want her to be happy and feel good about herself.
But attraction, physical attraction IS important in a romantic relationship. Suppose he got a face tattoo or sharpened shark teeth, it would be most important to him if he were happy with it yes and as his partner she should want him to feel good about himself too. But in both cases if that change made them lose attraction then it doesn't make them selfish/in the wrong for not wanting to continue the relationship.
It might be a mild hardly noticeable change or it could be a drastic one. And I agree he should give it time to see how it heals and if he adjusts to it. However in either case he can be happy for her but not want to continue a relationship with her.
Living your best life is the only revenge worth pursuing. I think your idea of leaving while he's away is smart. Get a lawyer to handle custody agreements.
Errr?! Why don’t you stop instead? Why do you feel entitled to look at her phone or search history?! She’s entitled to privacy & autonomy- you don’t get to supervise her every move & thought.
Yes, there tend to be privacy laws which apply to the senders…