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Is the divorce decree like a legal, enforceable document? If so, then he can enforce it with a lawyer no?
But the reality is…is it that big a deal? They have no kids. Presumably he doesn’t have feelings for her and the odds of them reconciling are slim. It could be as small as she hates her maiden name or has a reputation with her surname. And it can be as big as she’s still in love with him – but that doesn’t mean shit if he’s not willing to act on it. So…do you trust him? If you do, then it’s really not an issue.
She wants different things than you do. She's acted in a way that has made you feel like your sexual relationship is not just between the two of you. Regardless if she never brings up a threesome with this guy again, you know she wants it. That knowledge has completely warped your view of the relationship to the point where it will likely never be the same.
It's time to move on. Go find someone that actually wants monogamy, and let her find all the partners she craves.
Your mom wants what’s best for you. Your boyfriend wants whatever he’s getting out of the relationship: sex, status, fatherhood, etc. He doesn’t want what’s best for you because he doesn’t care. He doesn’t have empathy for you.
You’re going to be a mother now. Think seriously about what you’d want your daughter to do in the same situation.
I'm so sorry you have had to go through everything you have had to go through but even though I don't know you, I know you're an incredible woman that has survived that's something to be proud of and the love you have for your daughter is obvious. You're an incredible woman that's going to raise an incredible daughter xxx
So go change that and stop sitting around complaining about an equally shitty problem tf
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A lot of men are horrified by the idea of their children having sex with other men.
I'd be willing to bet that he would flip out if he had a son that turned out to be gay.
Fixations on having lesbian children can be a sign of male-directed homophobia.
Is the divorce decree like a legal, enforceable document? If so, then he can enforce it with a lawyer no?
But the reality is…is it that big a deal? They have no kids. Presumably he doesn’t have feelings for her and the odds of them reconciling are slim. It could be as small as she hates her maiden name or has a reputation with her surname. And it can be as big as she’s still in love with him – but that doesn’t mean shit if he’s not willing to act on it. So…do you trust him? If you do, then it’s really not an issue.
This is some Jerry springer shit
She wants different things than you do. She's acted in a way that has made you feel like your sexual relationship is not just between the two of you. Regardless if she never brings up a threesome with this guy again, you know she wants it. That knowledge has completely warped your view of the relationship to the point where it will likely never be the same.
It's time to move on. Go find someone that actually wants monogamy, and let her find all the partners she craves.
I appreciate your reply and not attacking me for my feelings.
Your mom wants what’s best for you. Your boyfriend wants whatever he’s getting out of the relationship: sex, status, fatherhood, etc. He doesn’t want what’s best for you because he doesn’t care. He doesn’t have empathy for you.
You’re going to be a mother now. Think seriously about what you’d want your daughter to do in the same situation.
I'm so sorry you have had to go through everything you have had to go through but even though I don't know you, I know you're an incredible woman that has survived that's something to be proud of and the love you have for your daughter is obvious. You're an incredible woman that's going to raise an incredible daughter xxx
Tell your cousin that her confession says more about how horrible a person she is, whether it's true or not.
This could not possibly be more true. Thank you for putting into words what I was thinking.