First you cheated on her (conveniently left that out, but it's all over your post history), then you waste time and money into therapy (I'm pretty sure her resentment is still there), and now you want to withold/delay breaking up to screw up her financial independence? Why the delay, why wait around for no fcking reason? Dude just do it now.
Seriously stop wasting time, there is nothing to dilly dally about and there is no reason to draw it out any longer.
Also the fact that you fund the therapist is because you had an affair and wanted to string her along. She resents you for your betrayal. The fact that you resent her for the therapy bill because you want to “fix” the betrayal you caused is a sort of a “leopards ate my face” rhetoric. Ironic.
Why are you going through your boyfriends phone?
First you cheated on her (conveniently left that out, but it's all over your post history), then you waste time and money into therapy (I'm pretty sure her resentment is still there), and now you want to withold/delay breaking up to screw up her financial independence? Why the delay, why wait around for no fcking reason? Dude just do it now.
Seriously stop wasting time, there is nothing to dilly dally about and there is no reason to draw it out any longer.
Also the fact that you fund the therapist is because you had an affair and wanted to string her along. She resents you for your betrayal. The fact that you resent her for the therapy bill because you want to “fix” the betrayal you caused is a sort of a “leopards ate my face” rhetoric. Ironic.