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You’re a grown-up now you have a 10-year-old marriage and you’re wanting to be 20 or 23. That ship has sailed. Marriage is just a lot of things to a lot of people. You can do anything you want right now you can go to college you can start a business you could become wealthy you can do whatever you want because you have a partner that loves you and will be there for you no matter what. I’m thinking you don’t understand what real love is and you’re taking him for granted and I feel really bad for him.
You’re a grown-up now you have a 10-year-old marriage and you’re wanting to be 20 or 23. That ship has sailed. Marriage is just a lot of things to a lot of people. You can do anything you want right now you can go to college you can start a business you could become wealthy you can do whatever you want because you have a partner that loves you and will be there for you no matter what. I’m thinking you don’t understand what real love is and you’re taking him for granted and I feel really bad for him.
You’re a grown-up now you have a 10-year-old marriage and you’re wanting to be 20 or 23. That ship has sailed. Marriage is just a lot of things to a lot of people. You can do anything you want right now you can go to college you can start a business you could become wealthy you can do whatever you want because you have a partner that loves you and will be there for you no matter what. I’m thinking you don’t understand what real love is and you’re taking him for granted and I feel really bad for him.
You’re a grown-up now you have a 10-year-old marriage and you’re wanting to be 20 or 23. That ship has sailed. Marriage is just a lot of things to a lot of people. You can do anything you want right now you can go to college you can start a business you could become wealthy you can do whatever you want because you have a partner that loves you and will be there for you no matter what. I’m thinking you don’t understand what real love is and you’re taking him for granted and I feel really bad for him.
You need to know your self worth!
Your ex broke you and it takes time to recover, put your guard down and feel love again. But to do that, you have to love and respect yourself in a healthy way!
OP, there's a reason this 33 year old started dating a 20 year old.
There's no “fixing the issue”. This man is toxic and needs professional help to work on himself, you need to break up and mvoe on.
You’re being a bit willfully obtuse. It’s clear he’s colorist, if not straight up racist. Very clear.
If you don’t want to date someone with those views, date someone else
Be nice and break it off. You should never be pressured to marry!!
This sounds r@pey
They’re really something else. I know this is a side tangent but don’t ever compare yourself to the women in porn. Everything is so fantasy and fake from the scenes, acting, orgasms to the bodies. I’m sorry you had to experience this, hopefully he doesn’t do it again. Or at least not next you for crying out loud. I strongly believe “out of sight out of mind” so idc if my bf watches porn I just don’t wanna know or hear about it. Cause I really don’t believe men ever really stop unless religious purposes IMO.
You saved his life, you don't owe him anything. You do, however, owe yourself some pride and dignity. Walk away.
Unless she has some top flight, 24/7 job this is a sign that this person isn't quite ready to adult just yet. Living at home isn't the kiss of death if you're there to help aging parents. But being her age and still having Mom doing her laundry isn't a great sign.
What should you do? Communicate with her what you just said to strangers. What she said to you was so mean and you have every right to feel the way you feel. Let her know how you feel!
You need to be married in order to move in together, he will be living in barracks where you cannot stay.
You also cannot travel with him to basic training or advanced individual training.
She did it once and will do it again.
Of course I don’t think that way. I just mean I don’t know how he can call me clingy or needy when I quite literally do shut the fuck up and stay out of the way. Lol
If you get 50:50 custody, would you have to make significant payments? Can you document for a month how much time she spends on her gaming consoles, and how much time she spends caring for your daughter? Maybe you could get even more than 50%.
While nice, you're basically saying you should never talk about issues with your partner.
The things here is, if your partner can't handle a conversation like this, they are simply emotionally immature.
Well, I can say without a doubt as someone who has been in and out of the swinging life in my younger years, it is fun but chances are the marriage won’t last. Someone always wants it more than the other and it USUALLY causes problems at some point with insecurities. Of course there are exceptions but not many at all.
Ever thought about him being more excited than you are at the thought of getting to sleep with another woman? Or what if he can go multiple times with someone else he just couldn’t with you. OOOORRRRR a not so uncommon but often surprising result, the guy realizes he also likes messing around with men too. These are the insecurities swinging will bring up so please communicate with your partner.
Oh crap , looks like you just have the waiting game then
Good luck
Ok so I might have a different view on this than most. I get it. When the hypothetical sleeping with someone else became a real thing, you found out that the hypothetical you being ok with it was different than the real you reacting to the real situation.
I think you need to dig deeper and find ou what exactly is bothering you. Do you think that she will leave you? Is it that he might be better? Or that she won't have enough love and affection left for you? Is it a sort of possessiveness that she is yours and no one else can have her?
Get to the bottom of your concerns, and challenge them. Is there any proof that she feels less love for you? Is it realistic to think that she should just be yours and another man touching her makes it less? Does it look like she is leaving? Compare it to your own feelings. Do you want to leave your wife now that you have a girlfriend? Do you love her less and is it realistic that she feels no one else can have you?
Then, once you know what the root of the problem is, adress that with her. Do you need more reassuring? More affection when she is with you?
An open relationship can really make people blossom, as they can find in others what their partner can't provide. But it really needs a strong foundation, constant work and that each partner is willing to talk and reassure and help the other partner.
You have to want her to live her best life, and vice versa. Love is not a birthday cake, it's not that if there is more people you get less of it. Time and attention is limited sometimes, and if you feel you are neglected in one or the other that is a conversation to have.
Underrated comment, sums up my thoughts completely
Correct. So what you do is move on and find a man who's grown up enough to be able to fathom commitment.
After I discovered my bf spent 2 days on tinder I went through his Google account history (his phone is connected to Google so it gives you a history of everything he did on his phone, what apps he was using and what times he was accessing them, and what was downloaded and when). It showed him uninstalling an reinstalling Tinder every time he wanted to check it. So, just because it's not currently on his phone doesn't mean anything. It takes half a minute at most to redownload and log back in to an app.
If he deliberately won’t label you two as exclusive then you’re not exclusive. His surprised Pikachu face is hilarious here LOL
Don't mean to be too crass here but it doesn't matter if it was a dick inside her or a vagina up against her – she had sex with another person, has been lying to you every day since then and also has put your health at risk through her deceit. She cheated on you and you deserve better.
This relationship was never going to work because he’s already in a relationship with Nat. There is 100% feelings from his side and that is why he kicked that other guy’s ass for kissing her. He also lied by omission about a lot of his relationship with her.
Just when it comes to one of the most important part of a relationship? Cmon.
I’m on recovery since a couple of weeks, she knows all of this, this happened some days ago when she asked me these questions (I don’t blame her, I’m still the asshole)
Just say no be honest.. if you don’t have honestly what do you have. Id be upset as well and I’d also say if you want to plan a friends trip let’s do it but this one is just for us..
Give it a couple days of rest where you don’t text. Then text her with a specific plan for a date you think she will enjoy. Very Specific! Like “Would you like to go to X with me at Y date and time? I will pick you up/meet you there.”
Then either she gives you a clear YES, or the answer is no and stop trying to talk to her.
I guess it depends on how you define need. If you go by the technical definition it is physically possible for you to buy a car without your husband's permission.
But then you were going to be responsible for the consequences of that decision which will include a husband that feels extremely disrespected by you and the huge financial impact that you've made on your shared funds that you didn't check with him on which may lead to the dissolution of your marriage.
It happens sometimes when people drastically change their appearance. My husband and I made an agreement to not have any drastic changes in appearance. He couldn't stop me if I really wanted to, but he would hate it, and he would tell me. It may be a deal breaker for him. You owe her a honest conversation.
Agreed people are taking it wayyy too personally in the comments. People indeed make mistakes, sometimes very big and stupid mistakes. And as human beings we are more than a collection of failings and we can't let them absolutely define anyone. Yeah OP cheated, that sucks and it was a shitty thing to do but it isn't nearly enough to make him the Devil incarnate.
He can still do right by himself, trying to be a good father for his children, learning for his mistakes, building something new on more solid ground.. There is still hope, there is always hope, for everyone, no matter what they did.
Change her number.. can’t go to bars? Yikes. I hope she leaves you
Here's the thing there's really nothing you can do. It's HIS issue. When you've talked about it together how does he see the future? What are his suggested solutions when you've said you can't live in a sexless marriage?
Redeemable is a funny word.. kinda depends on how much you respect yourself, and how much you want to believe you trust your SO. I think both of these aspects can be addressed by the fact that you made a post here.
What Jake was doing is seriously violating and disgusting
Have you just asked her to change?
“Hey, would you mind putting on…”
Fact is she was kept from OP voluntarily until he was magically needed. He isn’t the girls father other then by blood.
We were together 5 years, only have one more left of college, wanted to marry this girl but now she threw it out the window for me
Then he can go. You are fine and this is your health journey. What a ass he is, I know that hurts. But who tf is he to tell you that or make you feel like that. He must have been attracted but to say that wtf is wrong with HIM
Side piiiiiiece
My partner has herpes. She told me before sex ever happened and before we even got together officially. We talked about her medication and how it works to prevent outbreaks.
Unprotected is minimal, and never during a break out, and I get tested semi regularly, just in case.
I would never trust someone who only told me after having unprotected sex. That's not trustworthy behaviour.
What part of the world are you in? This may be a cultural gap.
I’m speaking from the US. If this was happening with one of my friends, my first question would be who the heck was supporting her before you met, and why can’t she fund her own needs? It sounds like you’re being taken advantage of.
Why would she offer to be a surrogate if you were already pregnant?
Make it make sense
When she’s at home she will just continuously roll blunts and smoke them for hours. I don’t even know how she does it
i’m not even mad at him i just don’t think i’m gonna be able to get over it and go back to how our relationship was – i feel betrayed that he is hot for my best friend when all night she was touching him i felt sm trust in him but now i just feel like an idiot
You’ve got a good point, and maybe that’s why I’m so anxious over it. No hint at timelines, just that he wants it to be a “surprise.” And lol no dad lives like a mile away. We’re actually having lunch with him today haha.
It's a very recent conversation, so when I asked her what does she need, she doesn't know yet because she doesn't want to break up. I know that my last resort, so I'll look into other options as well. Thank you for the advice.
My ex and I had a very contentious divorce and could barely be civil to each other for a few years after the split (which happened when the kids were 8 and 6). After three or four years of wrangling over holidays, birthdays, and other special occasions we finally reached a point where we could behave like rational adults and we discussed getting together on those occasions for the sake of the kids. We were upfront with them about it and never led them to believe we were getting back together. And it went really, really well for a few years but then my ex and I started getting on each other’s nerves and would bicker in front of the family, ruining things for everyone. So the kids talked it over and let us know they’d had enough and could we please go back to separate holidays, etc. A few years of that and my ex and I found our way to being kind to each other again and honestly, I now think of that him as a friend. But we still do separate family get togethers, essentially acknowledging that he and I are no longer family to each other. Both my kids now have families of their own and would prefer this “separate but equal” status, unless it’s a one-time thing (like a graduation or a dance recital or something similar) but my ex and I make an effort not to revert to our old argumentative ways.
Just don’t lie to your kids about what you’re doing. But be aware, many other family members will not be onboard. My ex and I get along but no one in his family will speak to me and that’s never going to change. Probably best if you just avoid telling them about what you’re doing. Remember, it’s your life and your kids’ welfare.
Man the rewards some assholes get for being nothing but a complete asshole to women completely make me question my entire life philosophy. Please find someone who is nice to you and is not pushing you for some crazy thing you don’t want to do. He should be buying you nice gifts taking you out of nice restaurants not constantly haranguing you for not doing risky things. Sex should be a natural progression within boundaries not this jump out of an airplane without a parachute bullshit.
This is clearly a joke
IMO, if he’s cheated on you in the past, it is likely that he’ll do it again. Do you want to be in a relationship where you’re always on edge about his past behavior? You deserve better than this, OP. Put yourself first, give yourself grace and time to heal, and be kind to yourself.