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1. You seem panicked here in what appears to be an otherwise rational situation.. Your SO exposed quite a bit of his private world to you to try and prove your relationship is secure and this was just an abandoned and overlooked relic of his search…for you. You yourself even gained independent evidence from one of the app sites that backs up his explanation.

   To me, it sounds like this is really a non-issue, but it also seems like you are feeling exceptionally vulnerable and on edge about this relationship. I'd pour all this out to my therapist and ask them to help me figure it out.

   I hope you find all the peace and happiness in the world.

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2. She's 14? She is able to voice her own opinion. She is not a 5 or a 7 year old who cannot answer or possible comprehend the question. Sjeezes.

   They are old enough to do chores, take responsibility when they act up but not to answer: hey, does this make you uncomfortable?

   A question most 8 year old's will be able to answer.

   For the rest.. light'n up. Everybody walks around as they please in my house. But obviously WE are not in the US. My daughter (15) is mostly half in underwear. My son (13) is always in underwear. My stepdaughter (11) usually wears tiny pj's. I wear pj's, tiny shorts or lace night gowns as I work from home and it all depends on the weather. My boyfriend – the evil stepfather so it would seem – always walks around in boxers and a t-shirt except when he just wakes up. Then it might just be boxers.

   And you know what… no one here even batted an eye… cause we don't think every single thing is about sex or sexual deviance.

   We are a family. Not something to be scared of or to be ruled like a prison.

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3. When you fall in love with someone, there's always a part of you that will love them. A part of me still loves my ex from 2 years ago even though I was the one who had to end things due to distance, incompatibility and the sheer lack of effort from his end. It doesn't matter who or what kind of person your love was, but in the end you remember the good times and the way you felt about them and it will only go away with time. With time you will also learn to understand that the reasons it didn't work out are more important than the love you felt for them and while you will always have a box in your heart with their name on it, you are allowed to go out and move on and live! your life with others and find love again.

   That being said 3 months is not a very long time to get over someone imo, if you feel guilty or conflicted about it, tell your girlfriend and take a break for some time. But I don't see anything good coming out of it. Do you feel incapable of loving your current girlfriend simply because you think about your ex sometimes? This habit can be actively diverted into other things. I used to cyber stalk my ex after we broke up. After a few months, every time I thought of or wanted to go look at his profile, I made myself play a random phone game instead. It worked amazingly. Maybe you can try something like this and continue to stay with your girlfriend. Good luck

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4. Are you on the spectrum? Snapping after an interruption like this might mean that your brain does not like to shift gears once you have your focus on something. The badges they use at convention (green – it's okay to talk to me, yellow — ask before interacting, red – do not approach) have helped me in relationships. I just used a white board, and wrote what color state I was in.

   Snapping is disrespectful, and I wouldn't want to live! with someone who snapped at me. If your behavior is negatively impacting your relationship and you do not see a problem with it, this relationship will likely not last. If you want it to last, perhaps see a therapist to learn how to regulate your behavior and improve your relationships. (This may even be helpful for future relationships.)

   Good luck!

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5. I mean, do you think sex should be a chore for OP's wife? Sex is supposed to be fun and feel good. It should be something she wants to do instead of something she just does because she feels obligated. Who knows, maybe OP himself also changed after the ring was on her finger and that's causing resentment.

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6. He’s very affectionate and loving towards me and he just lacks empathy for other people but he has it for me

   If he has been truly diagnosed with ASPD, you're not the exception that proves the rule: he either 1) manages his symptoms and behaviors better around you than he does other people or 2) you're easier for him to lie to or manipulate and get away with it.

   That he's gloating to your mother during an argument that she can't break you up is not a good or healthy thing. That he's trying to isolate you from your mother is not a good thing.

   You should really reevaluate this relationship

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