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You put a firm boundary in place that you will no longer tolerate her mind games, and a second boundary that you won't tolerate her disrespecting you and your relationship by entertaining another man's interest. And that the next time she entertains his interest you are ending it.
I have the same issue in my brain as you have. I am nit saying people leaving us on read don't feel rude to us, but we are so hooked up od social media and instant messaging, we (I wanted to say “expect” but…) are demanding others to respond asap to us yet I know that I don't often feel like responding to unconfortable question right away and so on. I am the kind of person who responds asap most of the time and it annoys me when I am being ignored but I understand that I am also slave to that and It's not ok. I hope this helps you see things from a different point of view.
Thank you. I do have a therapist, but due to my mom’s extremely inconsistent scheduling I can only see her about once a month, twice if I’m lucky. Better than nothing though
I didn't see anyone saying it, but you shouldn't limit your bf due to your issues with drinking. Just because he wants to drink doesn't mean that he's being unsupportive. It would be another thing if he told you you need to drink or handed you a drink. He's allowed to have fun. If he's constantly drinking at home and whatnot, ask him not to do it in front of you, but it sounds like he's a social drinker.
If you can't attend the event, your bf should definitely be allowed to.
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I'm still not seeing anything that implicates OP being grumpy and having a short fuse. Can you just quote the part that you think indicates it? Or maybe just tell me the line in the post? Everyone is saying he's an awful person who obviously verbally abuses his wife which is the reason she's walking on egg shells. Surely, you guys have some clear points of reference leading you to that conclusion.
In my experience, this is something I had done (albeit not consciously) previously with partners who had a shorter fuse and less patience/regard for my opinion.
In my experience, people with trauma tend to take it out on others and demand they accommodate that trauma. That doesn't mean that I'm going to assume the wife is doing so. She could have that habit for any number of reasons and most of them don't involve him or trauma. Some people just beat around the bush because they don't think about it. Some people were taught to do it as children. Others have trauma that has led to this behavior. Regardless, asserting that your experience is the answer to this scenario is a tad self absorbed. Your experiences aren't universal anymore than mine
He's dead wrong. If all he will do is finger, then you match that energy and give a hand job. But honestly, he's not ready for a sexual relationship if he's already acting selfish by way of sex.
Would it be enough if he showed up at the finish line in time to see you cross?
I’m wondering now if there’s not something else going on here? Your spouse seems overly resentful of your races. What’s up with that? It sounds like you’d usually be home before he’s even out of bed. Why’s he so bothered?
I agree with the other poster who said your hub should be able to stop complaining and have a residual interest in how you did. I mean, if his hobby were bass fishing or golf, how much interest could you possibly muster in lures or club sizes?
yeah… ur right tbh. I know. I cringe every time he talks. And he's so unhygienic lately. I'm sick of it I just struggle with dumping. I even asked if he has a adult baby kink or whatever and he claims not to… so he must need therapy. It's just idk. Also sucks because he will have to move out and he's very stubborn af. I know he will freak out and call his family and lie about me …
It's a no mate. You're in the friend zone. Unfortunately you may find that she pulls back from you a bit now that she knows you want more than platonic friendship. It is often the way. However, you have done nothing wrong, so don't feel bad about it. You just need to “shoot your shot” alot quicker in future.
Once you're a mate, you're not getting a date. Once you're a friend, that's the end. Now I'm pressing send, what a rhyming bellend. Sorry.
does he regularly apply for jobs? have you seen his cv? is the cv looks solid? does he try to develop his skill, so it'll be easier for him to find a job?
if he got a job before, surely he can land somewhere. maybe try to find answer to those questions. if one of them is no, then make sure he changes it to yes.
You put a firm boundary in place that you will no longer tolerate her mind games, and a second boundary that you won't tolerate her disrespecting you and your relationship by entertaining another man's interest. And that the next time she entertains his interest you are ending it.
Most immature pick me girls are so judgemental. I couldn't get over the same emoji used in almost every comment.
Send him the letter and say ps this is why I can’t handle being in a relationship with you and your mom
I have the same issue in my brain as you have. I am nit saying people leaving us on read don't feel rude to us, but we are so hooked up od social media and instant messaging, we (I wanted to say “expect” but…) are demanding others to respond asap to us yet I know that I don't often feel like responding to unconfortable question right away and so on. I am the kind of person who responds asap most of the time and it annoys me when I am being ignored but I understand that I am also slave to that and It's not ok. I hope this helps you see things from a different point of view.
I'm sorry I genuinely wasn't trying to be, I think work has rubbed off onto me???
And lol???
Thank you. I do have a therapist, but due to my mom’s extremely inconsistent scheduling I can only see her about once a month, twice if I’m lucky. Better than nothing though
I didn't see anyone saying it, but you shouldn't limit your bf due to your issues with drinking. Just because he wants to drink doesn't mean that he's being unsupportive. It would be another thing if he told you you need to drink or handed you a drink. He's allowed to have fun. If he's constantly drinking at home and whatnot, ask him not to do it in front of you, but it sounds like he's a social drinker.
If you can't attend the event, your bf should definitely be allowed to.
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Hmm yea probably a good point the every Saturday thing is way too much.
I don’t have much male friends either way. I’m not missing out on anything. Besides he respects it too. It isn’t just me. 50/50
I'm still not seeing anything that implicates OP being grumpy and having a short fuse. Can you just quote the part that you think indicates it? Or maybe just tell me the line in the post? Everyone is saying he's an awful person who obviously verbally abuses his wife which is the reason she's walking on egg shells. Surely, you guys have some clear points of reference leading you to that conclusion.
In my experience, this is something I had done (albeit not consciously) previously with partners who had a shorter fuse and less patience/regard for my opinion.
In my experience, people with trauma tend to take it out on others and demand they accommodate that trauma. That doesn't mean that I'm going to assume the wife is doing so. She could have that habit for any number of reasons and most of them don't involve him or trauma. Some people just beat around the bush because they don't think about it. Some people were taught to do it as children. Others have trauma that has led to this behavior. Regardless, asserting that your experience is the answer to this scenario is a tad self absorbed. Your experiences aren't universal anymore than mine
He's dead wrong. If all he will do is finger, then you match that energy and give a hand job. But honestly, he's not ready for a sexual relationship if he's already acting selfish by way of sex.
i just hope she is willing to work through this with me as well
Definitely get rid of him. No good can come of this. He’s making you feel insecure about your own body. He doesn’t deserve to be with you.
Asking someone what they want to change on their body is a ‘neg’ a way for you to put yourself down.
We all have different bodies. We don’t on-line in a porno. You don’t need to change your body. Find someone who loves you for who you are.
I would not be happy in that kind of relationship, which is why I ended it
ears from now, when you look back, you will be able to tell that child you were there when they were born. Does any of that matter to you?
Actually no…
Why do you not care to hurt his feelings? –> oh yeah and i'm just an emotionless robot innit
I think you are wasting your time
You’re both adults. Only one of you can go to a bar and have a drink but whatever. You do you.
Would it be enough if he showed up at the finish line in time to see you cross?
I’m wondering now if there’s not something else going on here? Your spouse seems overly resentful of your races. What’s up with that? It sounds like you’d usually be home before he’s even out of bed. Why’s he so bothered?
I agree with the other poster who said your hub should be able to stop complaining and have a residual interest in how you did. I mean, if his hobby were bass fishing or golf, how much interest could you possibly muster in lures or club sizes?
yeah… ur right tbh. I know. I cringe every time he talks. And he's so unhygienic lately. I'm sick of it I just struggle with dumping. I even asked if he has a adult baby kink or whatever and he claims not to… so he must need therapy. It's just idk. Also sucks because he will have to move out and he's very stubborn af. I know he will freak out and call his family and lie about me …
It's a no mate. You're in the friend zone. Unfortunately you may find that she pulls back from you a bit now that she knows you want more than platonic friendship. It is often the way. However, you have done nothing wrong, so don't feel bad about it. You just need to “shoot your shot” alot quicker in future.
Once you're a mate, you're not getting a date. Once you're a friend, that's the end. Now I'm pressing send, what a rhyming bellend. Sorry.
At least my friends are more naturally pretty
Their personalities say otherwise.
You seem to be a very kind person at heart which makes people attractive.
People who are so quick and willing to put down their “friends” tend to be ugly on the inside and it shows on the outside as well.
He wouldn’t teach kids to say racist stuff because he doesn’t say racist stuff.
You gave examples of racist stuff he's said. Keep your story straight.
He wouldn’t teach kids to say racist stuff because he doesn’t say racist stuff.
You gave examples of racist stuff he's said. Keep your story straight.
does he regularly apply for jobs? have you seen his cv? is the cv looks solid? does he try to develop his skill, so it'll be easier for him to find a job?
if he got a job before, surely he can land somewhere. maybe try to find answer to those questions. if one of them is no, then make sure he changes it to yes.
2 month and already you see things not compatible.
It should be flower honeymoon phase, it will only get quieter as time goes by.
You dont change people you can only set boundaries.
We aren't gay ? But no she just needed a babysitter so I wanted to check if my gf could be one
You don't love him, you are using him, not be alone.