Rosie shows her charms for you
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He has not placed as much value in these three years as you have. Maybe rethink your reasoning.
I disagree, the proposal should be a reflection of both parties. There was none of OP's wishes in the proposal and if you want to build a life together, it has to reflect each other. The proposal is obviously a reflection of a bigger problem.
This is it OP.
Honestly it sounds like he took a few days to think through what he wanted. It doesn’t have to be a dark reason he went silent. Sometimes we just need to be in the right headspace. And when you care about someone it’s hot to contemplate hurting them when they’re being super sweet and kind.
I did an LDR for 6 years. I’d fly to her once a month for 36-48 hours. We talked everyday. I picked up whenever she called. Every time I left she would say things to try to get me to stay, beg me to stay. I pointed out how hurtful it was to constantly be made to be the bad guy. She understood but it made her feel better to cry and say those things. One year she cried everyday on the phone. I had to back burner literally every one of my feelings to support her. LDRs are rough.
So you need to have a talk with her.
Being friends with an ex, in some cases is fine – but being friends with an ex who she admits still has feelings for her is inappropriate for someone who is supposed to be in a committed relationship.
So she doesn’t need to cut all of them off, but she does need to cut the ones that have feelings for her still, and needs to set boundaries for the rest of them, as to what behaviour is acceptable to you both.
Does the area where you live! have local government services? You should be able to talk to a social.worker about what's going on. I would also call.your family doctor Phone help lines can direct you to services too. Do you have access to a service like Lifeline?. They can give you a list of services that night be able to assist you
Apparently as much as 7/10 men don’t even wash their asshole, from what a medical professional posted about on here. You would be absolutely amazed how many people are never taught to wash themselves properly.
I'm not seeing anything in your post that looks shitty or hurtful at all. Unless you're leaving out a lot of details it just seems like you both approach relationships and intimacy from a completely different perspective.
I think you are applying some very specific personal rules to another humans dating life as if they should be universal values.
Your boyfriend is abusive and you're making excuses for his behavior and taking blame for somethingnhe agreed to.
You did what was best for you and your mental health, nothing to feel bad about and if your friend cares about your well being they will respect that. Going forward, take it slow, speak to them if you want but if you don't want to/don't feel good about a situation then it's ok to say no.
It's cruelty to insist that someone you've rejected remain in your orbit as a “friend”. Often people do this because they feel guilty about not having reciprocal feelings for someone they do care about platonically. But just as often they'll try to keep this person around just to boost their ego. You're 23, you will someday find someone who actually wants to be with you. She's obviously not “the perfect mate” since she has no interest in dating you. Save yourself the drama and hurt feelings and end this weird abusive situation.
My partner knows the hierarchy, the dogs were here first. They're top of the love chain, but it's a good thing because he loves them just as much.
Everyone is different, but OP's husband sounds insecure and they need to communicate a bit better imo.
I would ask, just the way you said it here…See how he responds. If it is normal, I definitely would at least be concerned. Even if he has a good explanation.
Nah. That's not true. One of my ex-girlfriends just want to constantly held and touched. Then I was told off when I didn't. Sounds as good as it was. It was stifling.
Here’s the thing…this is a strategy on your (hopefully ex) bf’s part.
By saying you’re constantly effing up but failing to provide concrete examples he removes your ability to make changes. If you were able to make an effort and possibly change some things, then he would have to acknowledge that effort. He also wouldn’t be able to blame you for messing things up if you change how or no longer do them at all. This is called a moving goal post. He’s leaving it open to potentially find fault with anything you do. His strategy is to keep you guessing what “everything is your fault” actually means.
He’s trying to start a cycle where he blames you for some trivial thing that’s really his responsibility, you make some huge effort to make it up to him (this benefits only him btw, not your relationship as a whole) and then when you feel like things are back to normal he throws another fit to get you to go above and beyond again.
Dump him.
Our lease ends in September. Could that be an idea? Might be a smoother transition, at least living-situation-wise.
Heads up. Therapists recommend zero contact with Exs for multiple reasons.
Generally it's evidence that you're not moving on (meeting dating others and growing as a person).
But therapists also recognize that Exs tend to cause of problems )disrupt future relationships.
Most men that love and are deeply committed to you are not wired to be comfortable with Exs.
Finally, studies show that Exs are high risk as an affair partner. And studies find the current level of non romance is irrelevant – it can escalate to sex in a heartbeat.
Therefore, for the sake of your future relationships, I suggest you distance yourself, block and ghost him.
When you cross paths it's just 'hi' not a catch up. Focus on the future. Keep him in the past as a learning experience.
Btw: most 30yo men in a committed loving relationship would not object to your boundaries. You made a smart decision. Stay strong.
I mean I guess so, Im not there with her so idk what goes on
End the relationship, he's clearly trying to take advantage of you. Dude's older than you and you have to take care of him. An actual child would be easier, and in the long run probably less expensive. He sounds like someone who has big ideas, and thinks they'll be easy to do if only he had someone else's money…
I wasn’t offended I do mistakes all the time ?
It’s on you. Do you trust her? Can you forgive her?
If no or no… then the relationship is done. Leave now rather than deleting the inevitable.
If you do everything and she does not contribute anything, she feels entitled and does not value or respect you, that is why she acts like that and probably for that same reason, perhaps she is being unfaithful to you.