>HOW can I tell him I don’t want to be in this relationship anymore and I want him to move out?
“My feelings have changed and I don't want to be in this relationship anymore. I am breaking up with you. I'd like you out of my place by X date.”
He doesn't have to like it, but he does need to respect your decision. Find out what the rules are about evicting tenants (because he pays you rent, is there a contract with terms?) and do that.
Not sure what you meant with your last “FU” but will take the rest of it on board, thank you.
>HOW can I tell him I don’t want to be in this relationship anymore and I want him to move out?
“My feelings have changed and I don't want to be in this relationship anymore. I am breaking up with you. I'd like you out of my place by X date.”
He doesn't have to like it, but he does need to respect your decision. Find out what the rules are about evicting tenants (because he pays you rent, is there a contract with terms?) and do that.
and it makes me feel like an asshole because as general society will publicize it “it’s what on the inside what counts. you’re an asshole.”
If you were just friends, that'd be true. But you're not.
Trying to have a sex life with someone you're not attracted to is probably not all that enjoyable…which defeats the purpose of a sex life.
I'm not really into dating blond women. Different people have different types. It's okay.
It sucks to lose an otherwise good relationship over sexual incompatibility, but it's better than being indefinitely unhappy.