No one should be pressured sexually. Period. Full stop. Anyone who is attempting to manipulate, or badger you into saying yes to something sexually despite expressing discomfort and disinterest would be committing sexual assault by way of coercion.
You're not in love, you're infatuated. There's a difference.
Either be a man, when she posts a story on IG comment something along the lines of
Looking as pretty as ever, I'm going to be in your city on X date to X date, if you're free i was thinkinh we could get a drink & catch up, it's been forever.
Then shoot your shot, if not just block her on all socials, stop infactuating over people
Unfortunately you already have children with her but perhaps you should have her attend a therapy session to help you express what her insistence is doing to you and how you may resent her and eventually destroy your family. She's not a good person or good for you. I'm sorry Op.
So…you’re just having an emotional affair with him? Do you really think that’s okay if he’s married and wants to keep your “friendship” a secret? The secrecy alone should tell you that you need to take a step back from this.
Most definitely hit him up. The more forward you are the better. By that I mean don't just slide into his DMs, but upfront that you like him and would love to take him out on a date to get to know him better.
See a lawyer first. They will be able to advise you what to do about his job. He should not be worried about his teaching license or job. He is a victim.
For me, I want this. Years and years of this. I’m so starved from praise, attention, and affection, I just can get enough. I know some are suffocated by this. So you just have to see how SHE feels about it
“No Judge rules more harshly than the one we carry inside”.
If you are walking on eggshells because you are afraid of consequences
you might as well go home and hide under the bed.
You have no control over what and how people think.
You DO have control over your own behavior and your
job in Life is to come out of the Best Part of yourself in how you behave.
Got It?
Because I'm telling some random idiot that their opinion of my relationship means less than nothing to me? Yes, quite immature.
Did you vote for Mr. B? Asking for a friend
No one should be pressured sexually. Period. Full stop. Anyone who is attempting to manipulate, or badger you into saying yes to something sexually despite expressing discomfort and disinterest would be committing sexual assault by way of coercion.
You're not in love, you're infatuated. There's a difference.
Either be a man, when she posts a story on IG comment something along the lines of
Looking as pretty as ever, I'm going to be in your city on X date to X date, if you're free i was thinkinh we could get a drink & catch up, it's been forever.
Then shoot your shot, if not just block her on all socials, stop infactuating over people
Unfortunately you already have children with her but perhaps you should have her attend a therapy session to help you express what her insistence is doing to you and how you may resent her and eventually destroy your family. She's not a good person or good for you. I'm sorry Op.
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So…you’re just having an emotional affair with him? Do you really think that’s okay if he’s married and wants to keep your “friendship” a secret? The secrecy alone should tell you that you need to take a step back from this.
Most definitely hit him up. The more forward you are the better. By that I mean don't just slide into his DMs, but upfront that you like him and would love to take him out on a date to get to know him better.
If he cooks his typical larger portions of unhealthier food will you be able to keep from eating it?
See a lawyer first. They will be able to advise you what to do about his job. He should not be worried about his teaching license or job. He is a victim.
Might be , that’s why I’m making this post
She's an adult. She can get a job. She can find a place to on-line. Divorce her already. You're not her parent ffs.
For me, I want this. Years and years of this. I’m so starved from praise, attention, and affection, I just can get enough. I know some are suffocated by this. So you just have to see how SHE feels about it