First… my parents have a healthy relationship and do what you want. For further context… my mom has a wealth management firm. This has saved them so much stress and frustration. Because it isn’t about trust… it is about being able to spend your own money… without asking about everything. Also helps with gifts.
Second… this would make me deeply uncomfortable. Not the desire for equal sharing…. But the lack of listening to your needs and wants. He will do this for other things… take a look and really think about if you want this dynamic.
First… my parents have a healthy relationship and do what you want. For further context… my mom has a wealth management firm. This has saved them so much stress and frustration. Because it isn’t about trust… it is about being able to spend your own money… without asking about everything. Also helps with gifts.
Second… this would make me deeply uncomfortable. Not the desire for equal sharing…. But the lack of listening to your needs and wants. He will do this for other things… take a look and really think about if you want this dynamic.