Yea we donāt need more info to think wtf about bringing a defenseless baby into this. Itās bad enough you have three kids that are experiencing trauma
Thatās true, but everything else in my life hurts at the moment and the thought of losing my best friend on top of it sounds excruciating. I love him so much, but itās not working š so much pain
You need to see a doctor to figure out whatās up with your libido. Itās not fair to him that you only want sex once a month. This isnāt going to end well for you. You keep talking about what he can do for you but what are you doing for each other? You guys need therapy and fast.
Since he is rich, she need to consult with several top divorce lawyers in her region. He can afford the best, but a really good divorce lawyer for OP will likely overcome that.
Look, you should really talk about this before proposing. Just tell her toxic masculinity only works to perpetuate sexist stereotypes and has inherently homophobic foundations. She can either accept that and work to overcome her own harmful biases, or you may have to face the facts that you may have fundamentally different values.
It is a difficult situation for sure. His mom has become such a huge part of my life. She knows that heās a difficult person. I donāt think sheāll fire me. But I need to handle the situation with my boyfriend in a calm way so that he donāt ask her to fire me or something
You told him nothing is wrong. He may assume you are depressed about something else.
You have to be direct and tell him. It might be too late since this something you address early. But pretending support and resenting, isnāt helping you.
You will need to acknowledge that part of the problem is you lying about acceptance. Heās not a mind reader. He should know, when you are saying itās okay, is not realistic reason.
Talk with him. Figure out if there are any compromises or other options for you.
OP needs to speak up if she wants an exclusive relationship. I agree that her wording comes off petty. A direct response stating what she wants should prevent any heartache. Letting the date carry on without the discussion seems like doom to the relationship. Not being upfront, means OP doesn't value the relationship anyhow.
Yes, but you're also young. Just keep high standards for yourself and don't settle. Trust is important and is the foundation of a relationship. Don't forget that!
Yes he is. He's also in the know of everything that has transpired this year.
Yes he is. He's also in the know of everything that has transpired this year.
Are you sure heās not Christmas shopping for you?
Yea we donāt need more info to think wtf about bringing a defenseless baby into this. Itās bad enough you have three kids that are experiencing trauma
These are major red flags and you are still with him. So when are you going to choose yourself to care for and let him take care of himself?
Thatās true, but everything else in my life hurts at the moment and the thought of losing my best friend on top of it sounds excruciating. I love him so much, but itās not working š so much pain
You need to see a doctor to figure out whatās up with your libido. Itās not fair to him that you only want sex once a month. This isnāt going to end well for you. You keep talking about what he can do for you but what are you doing for each other? You guys need therapy and fast.
Take me with it too
But I like her.
It looks like everyone learned a lesson that day.
Might as well have some fun with it, not everyday you get to traumatize your entire family at once.
Definitely get some cream filled pastries for dessert.
It honestly seems sus.
“Here's my preference.”
“How dare you! I feel disrespected!”
Grow the frick up, please.
You misspelled Porkies.
Since he is rich, she need to consult with several top divorce lawyers in her region. He can afford the best, but a really good divorce lawyer for OP will likely overcome that.
I didnāt say it was accidental I said it was a mistake. I didnāt see where it said she didnāt feel bad about it?
Yes! Yes to the necklace. Much better choice.
Look, you should really talk about this before proposing. Just tell her toxic masculinity only works to perpetuate sexist stereotypes and has inherently homophobic foundations. She can either accept that and work to overcome her own harmful biases, or you may have to face the facts that you may have fundamentally different values.
It is a difficult situation for sure. His mom has become such a huge part of my life. She knows that heās a difficult person. I donāt think sheāll fire me. But I need to handle the situation with my boyfriend in a calm way so that he donāt ask her to fire me or something
You told him nothing is wrong. He may assume you are depressed about something else.
You have to be direct and tell him. It might be too late since this something you address early. But pretending support and resenting, isnāt helping you.
You will need to acknowledge that part of the problem is you lying about acceptance. Heās not a mind reader. He should know, when you are saying itās okay, is not realistic reason.
Talk with him. Figure out if there are any compromises or other options for you.
OP needs to speak up if she wants an exclusive relationship. I agree that her wording comes off petty. A direct response stating what she wants should prevent any heartache. Letting the date carry on without the discussion seems like doom to the relationship. Not being upfront, means OP doesn't value the relationship anyhow.
Yes, but you're also young. Just keep high standards for yourself and don't settle. Trust is important and is the foundation of a relationship. Don't forget that!
I have no interest in trying to control your body and I'd appreciate you paying me the same courtesy.
Read ops post historyā¦.. they met when she was 19 /: definitely groomed her. I hope she leaves him