Does that make you used and damaged too? I’m sorry but if that’s the way he talks about women then you’re better off not telling him. Your trauma isn’t about him, and if you expect him to throw a pity party because his partner was raped as a child then I think you’re better of talking to a licensed therapist.
So because my plans don’t involve other people and I won’t lose money then they are less valid?
How is me suggesting alternative times when we are both free not compromising?
Does that make you used and damaged too? I’m sorry but if that’s the way he talks about women then you’re better off not telling him. Your trauma isn’t about him, and if you expect him to throw a pity party because his partner was raped as a child then I think you’re better of talking to a licensed therapist.