Thank you for replying. This is what he was telling me as well, he told me it does not make a difference because they see each other at work all the time.
If you loved your sister you would leave her alone. You are poison like your parents. She deserves so much better than any of you. You’re hateful okay, deal with the consequences. For her sake I hope she never speaks to you again.
When I was in a bad relationship I eventually learned to prep an escape and a long term separation solution. So that even if we are trying to work it out if they try to hurt me I am ready to leave and I don’t have to try and figure everything else in a blind panic. Make your preparations this will help you to feel more in control. It sounds like your husband is not wanting to be a father.
You have only been dating for 2 months. Of course everything is “perfect” when you barely know each other.
If your girlfriend is “extremely catholic” and you are not extremely catholic and you are hoping that she changes her views, this relationship is going to end badly. Do not date someone hoping that they will change who they are.
If you do have children with this woman, how are you going to feel about them being raised extremely catholic? Do you want your children indoctrinated the way you were?
Read your last paragraph before the tl;dr. Nowhere in there do you say anything you love about her. It’s all about you. You don’t really seem to like her all that much, but you like what she does for you. That’s what you’re afraid of losing. She’s engaged now, which means she’s going to be putting that energy into someone else, and that’s what’s eating you up. It’s not about “how can I live! without Rachel.” It’s about “how am I going to find someone else to do this for me.” And that’s why you focus on trivial bullshit like her perfume and the way she dresses. Because as an individual — as a human being — she’s kind of irrelevant to you. Once you accept that, it’ll be easier to let her go.
I mean if you’re not ok with it, you’re not ok with it. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries and stick by them. Does she know you’re not ok with it?
Stolen from u/xvszero
Thank you for replying. This is what he was telling me as well, he told me it does not make a difference because they see each other at work all the time.
Wonder how much she could get selling them…
What gender r u?
If you loved your sister you would leave her alone. You are poison like your parents. She deserves so much better than any of you. You’re hateful okay, deal with the consequences. For her sake I hope she never speaks to you again.
I can see how it may look that way and I get what you’re saying, but there’s just no way.
When I was in a bad relationship I eventually learned to prep an escape and a long term separation solution. So that even if we are trying to work it out if they try to hurt me I am ready to leave and I don’t have to try and figure everything else in a blind panic. Make your preparations this will help you to feel more in control. It sounds like your husband is not wanting to be a father.
Start a go fund me.
You have only been dating for 2 months. Of course everything is “perfect” when you barely know each other.
If your girlfriend is “extremely catholic” and you are not extremely catholic and you are hoping that she changes her views, this relationship is going to end badly. Do not date someone hoping that they will change who they are.
If you do have children with this woman, how are you going to feel about them being raised extremely catholic? Do you want your children indoctrinated the way you were?
Read your last paragraph before the tl;dr. Nowhere in there do you say anything you love about her. It’s all about you. You don’t really seem to like her all that much, but you like what she does for you. That’s what you’re afraid of losing. She’s engaged now, which means she’s going to be putting that energy into someone else, and that’s what’s eating you up. It’s not about “how can I live! without Rachel.” It’s about “how am I going to find someone else to do this for me.” And that’s why you focus on trivial bullshit like her perfume and the way she dresses. Because as an individual — as a human being — she’s kind of irrelevant to you. Once you accept that, it’ll be easier to let her go.
That's exactly what I say! I don't! Thanks!
So? He's still taking responsibility for it. By apologizing. By treating her extra nice. By agreeing to individual therapy and couples therapy.