Is it even legal in Canada to borrow money for a deposit? It’s not in the UK. Here if you aren’t funding the entire deposit yourself you usually have to get confirmation that the ‘loan’ is a gift. If it’s the same in Canada you’d have to lie to the mortgage co or your future BIL is giving you a $150k gift!
Talk to him. You’re young. Learn to communicate.
Is it even legal in Canada to borrow money for a deposit? It’s not in the UK. Here if you aren’t funding the entire deposit yourself you usually have to get confirmation that the ‘loan’ is a gift. If it’s the same in Canada you’d have to lie to the mortgage co or your future BIL is giving you a $150k gift!
OP…Did she tell you about her positive pregnancy test in August, or did she tell you in October/November that she had been pregnant since August?
Another poster asked this but you didn't answer, and it would be very telling.