Read your other posts and have no clue why you are so desperate to get back together with him. He sounds awful. Just walk away and get some therapy if you still find yourself wanting to talk to him
Look, I’m saying this as the daughter of an absent father. Just choose your wife and newborn and prioritise them, it sucks but you have a choice right now – try to repair a damaged (and honestly spiteful) daughter and risk damaging your second child too or choose to put your efforts into your wife and newborn and not repeat the same mistakes.
If you continue this way you will give Amanda more ammunition to throw (because look, you’re doing it to your second kid!) and you’ll probably lose your wife and both kids. You tried your best OP, cut your losses now and let Amanda choose if she wants to make the effort or not – she is an adult, not a troubled child.
Match the energy. Love it! Might steal it.
“probably doesn't ” is not a factual statement
use that head of yours
It already sounds really bad an$ this stuff just gets worse once your married.
Read your other posts and have no clue why you are so desperate to get back together with him. He sounds awful. Just walk away and get some therapy if you still find yourself wanting to talk to him
Look, I’m saying this as the daughter of an absent father. Just choose your wife and newborn and prioritise them, it sucks but you have a choice right now – try to repair a damaged (and honestly spiteful) daughter and risk damaging your second child too or choose to put your efforts into your wife and newborn and not repeat the same mistakes.
If you continue this way you will give Amanda more ammunition to throw (because look, you’re doing it to your second kid!) and you’ll probably lose your wife and both kids. You tried your best OP, cut your losses now and let Amanda choose if she wants to make the effort or not – she is an adult, not a troubled child.