The only thing close was him agreeing to me having a separate savings if he has the login.
This is financial abuse.
“If someone is forced to be dependent on someone financially or if their money or income is controlled, monitored or restricted by a partner or ex-partner then it is considered coercive control, which is a crime [in my country].”
This has nothing to do with your trust issues, he's using that to manipulate you into doing what he wants. You've tried speaking to him and the only thing he has even considered doing is the one option where he still has control.
The only thing close was him agreeing to me having a separate savings if he has the login.
This is financial abuse.
“If someone is forced to be dependent on someone financially or if their money or income is controlled, monitored or restricted by a partner or ex-partner then it is considered coercive control, which is a crime [in my country].”
This has nothing to do with your trust issues, he's using that to manipulate you into doing what he wants. You've tried speaking to him and the only thing he has even considered doing is the one option where he still has control.
You got this. Don’t reach out. Hit the gym and be your best.
Thats how you tell hes a gutless prick.