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Yeah, I'm with you. That's messed up. It's almost like he is trying a “do-over” with “Lilly”, since he messed up the first attempt. Yuck.
Why not just curiosity? It's probably just curiosity?
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Fiancé's friend is part of the problem, he allowed his GF to determine her worth to you.
A person you knew for 3 months was way over entitled to ask to be in your wedding. She sounds exhausting, immature and an attention seeker!
I hope she isn't even invited to the wedding. Fiancé needs to have your back 100% on this! The drama queen doesn't get to be a b*tch and still be invited!!
Understand that she was excited to get alone time with you and to spoil you with a gift she assumes you love
That being that, when I am tired, hungry, or even the least bit inconvenienced, I don't want sex. I want my food.
Just have an adult conversation, it's a bit of confusion. Sort it out, you love each other. You just had one of those moments where your minds didn't meet.
Sometimes food orgasm beats sex orgasm. I will die on this hill.
I've come to realize that people project all sorts of stuff onto others. If you can recognize it, then reading people becomes easier, and anticipating things become more precise and accurate. A few of my exes cheated on me. I've never cheated… Didn't see the point. The ones that cheated on me accused me of cheating, while the others didn't. When confronted, the cheaters vehemently denied it. When given specifics and proof in a logical manner, they offered more denial and wouldn't just admit it, wanting more to argue about it rather than care about the relationship they've torpedoed. Kicking and screaming the whole way to deny something truthful…
They also assume that others act as they do. They assume that because they are thinking it, others are too. I had a friend staying with me, rent free for over a year. Just prior to them moving out, they accused me of stealing from them, they trashed things looking for the stolen item, threatened me physically, you know? The usual… Lol. I've known this guy since 1996, and I know if I don't react then it really pisses him off and not that I wanted to piss him off, but it was just easier to remain stoic and countdown the days until he moves out. So one day he's screaming at me. I know he's screaming, but I got headphones on. I would've ignored him without the headphones at this point. He eventually calms down and he's flabbergasted his attempts to beleaguer me have missed the mark and he says, “Why haven't you made living here a nightmare for me so I would move out sooner? I mean that's the logical thing to do.”
So telling this words. You see that's what he would've done. He's expecting me to react to him like he would react. The point is, if you can recognize projection when it's happening you can see motives, affirm suspicions, anticipate moves, and it just makes decision making healthier for you. Accuse others of that which you do… This obfuscates the truth, intentions, where blame should be placed, and it slows others down. Not that that is what he was doing, but I digress.
I did woman up, when he found me he said he'd been looking for me in a blaming way, which was fuel to the fire, I pointed out I wouldn't need looking for if he hadn't walked off, he then called me evil for saying that, which was a red rag to a bull and it went downhill from there. He broke up with me, I'm not sure I considered our relationship in tact from my side at that point anyway, but we physically stayed together waiting for the flight home and 24 hours later he thawed, I guess realising it was out of character for me and because he played his part in it, too. I know I am not blameless, but I was curious for feedback on feeling upset at his initial behaviour.
If she continues – it is better to tell her we need a break until you understand you have hurt me for these reasons …
Right, its sad cuz if she was coerced into sex with him, she still cheated beforehand. She could have been sexually assaulted, but because she betrayed her partner she also lost her support.
Hope OP breaks up with her, and she learns to hold boundaries so she can keep her dignity, safety, and relationships in tact in the future
You’re right but I don’t get why they compared them to their ex in the first place unless they’re having doubts about their current partner.
Like, it’d be different if he wrote “I am not used to being with something safe and secure and it’s not what I’m used to but she’s so lovely and wonderful” instead it sounds like he wants something else because he’s missing the passion and he’s bored he doesn’t have to try as very hot to please her.
You can’t control how someone is going to feel after you break up with them. They will feel whatever they feel. Just break up with her, like how you explained it in your post. It sounds like you want to work on yourself and you don’t/can’t be in a relationship right now. You feel terrible because she’s great and has done nothing wrong but you nonetheless need some space and want to take a break.
Tell him: “You know how much I love you and how excited I am to marry you. You also know that your sister’s treatment of me is downright rude. While I understand no one person can control the actions and attitudes of another, I have to be honest with you. I am having doubts. You are aware of the multiple times she has treated me poorly. You are also aware she has attempted to take advantage and HAS taken advantage of you, and by default me, over the years. My doubts surround my hesitation to enter into a lifetime of commitment to your family and your sister’s treatment of me. If you cannot work with me to fix this, we may well need to part ways. How can we solve this issue?”
Oh he would go but his work phone would be on. This has happened many times including when we went to Disneyworld last year.
He is setting you up for abuse like you’ve never experienced if you go back to him. That he remembers all the horrible things he’s done to you beans HE DID THEM ON PURPOSE. He WANTED to abuse you. HE WILL NOT CHANGE.
You’re already moved out. Block him everywhere, go full & permanent NC & don’t look back.
Thanks for the advice! A couple questions,
On your point “A” what activities and experiences would you recommend? I've been trying to find something we would both enjoy but nothing will stick. Our sex life is probably the least of my concerns. I think your point “B” is what I've noticed the most. I have a naked time talking about anything emotional. Especially my feelings. Communication is tough though.
Both points “C” and “D” are true. I honestly don't know why I Included them. I've always been a numbers guy so maybe I thought it would help you understand the situation? I'm not sure, but I have no complaints with my current role as her husband. I'm fine carrying most of the load as long as that means her and my son are happy. How do you even stop seeing things in numbers? xD
Divorce is my worst nightmare. Luckily my girl is a fighter and wouldn't give up too easily, so I'm not too worried as long as I put in the effort to help our relationship.
Within literally just a few weeks of separating, I had a savings account for the first time in 12 years. Somehow, paying all the bills on one income I still have more money than when we were in a dual income home. Go figure!!
Ummm there are SIX posts about this long distrance relationship of 5 MONTHS and all of it is about problems in the relationship. Not one post is about good times in their very brief relationship. Again, that’s not piling it on. It’s just stating what is readily available to the public that OP has already posted.
YOUR comment is judgemental. It’s also unhelpful and unproductive. Calling something drama isn’t judgemental, especially not in this case with her post history.
How do you usually self soothe when something upsets you?
I’d agree for the most part… but there’s a level of argument that escalates beyond privacy. Because she’s being vague I can’t rule out violence. Any kind of violent or abusive behavior should absolutely be aired outside of the relationship to someone(s) you trust.
You have an illness that causes you pain. He ignores this and goes to sleep. You don't want to tell him because he will get angry? He will get angry that you are in pain? This is not what happens in a good relationship. You are dating a jerk.
If you are already considering breaking up then you have nothing to loose, right? Talk to her. Ask her if she is feeling okay. Deathfarts are usually a sign that something is wrong. Like undiagnosed food intolerances. Give her at least that chance to fix it. If she can't/won't then you can still dump her poison gas producing ass.
My wife would drink a lot, but the friend and I would always drink to excess and black out.
Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to someone you claim to care about, but given the above, I think you have more systemic problems here, man.
You're 30 and getting blackout drunk on the regular with your wife's friend?
That's a whole world of bad decision making there to unpack.
I'm not going the vengeful route. I just want out and my kid at this point. We've agreed multiple times to just take our own assets and split the house and everytime we cone to an agreement where he doesn't solely, he flips. He does not care if he wins, only that I lose. The problem is he feels entitled to ME. Eventually they will settle but I still need to mitigate the damage in the meantime