If you can talk about that, you can ask about condoms. I would just say something like:
“Hey, so my overly-observant self noticed your condom stash looks like it shrunk. And since we dont use them…Care to ease my mind on where they went before my brain starts to jump to worrisome conclusions?”
My brain can over-think LOTS of things…so this would sound totally natural and not at all accusatory if I were to say it. But yeah, just ask. Preferably before you get too worried about it.
Both of you people need to stay the fuck away from each other.
If you can talk about that, you can ask about condoms. I would just say something like:
“Hey, so my overly-observant self noticed your condom stash looks like it shrunk. And since we dont use them…Care to ease my mind on where they went before my brain starts to jump to worrisome conclusions?”
My brain can over-think LOTS of things…so this would sound totally natural and not at all accusatory if I were to say it. But yeah, just ask. Preferably before you get too worried about it.
Stop sending her stuff if the lack of reciprocation is causing you problems. She's obviously not comfortable sending that stuff.