I definitely feel you but it IS a dealbreaker. I’d let him cool down then bring it up in a week or two. And create a safe space and let him know hey I respect all your feelings etc etc but this is what I’d a dealbreaker for me so if we are on different pages about this big issue we should discuss it. Highly recommend couples therapy for this issue as well.
Why are you working 80 hour weeks? That’s insane. Does he work?
I definitely feel you but it IS a dealbreaker. I’d let him cool down then bring it up in a week or two. And create a safe space and let him know hey I respect all your feelings etc etc but this is what I’d a dealbreaker for me so if we are on different pages about this big issue we should discuss it. Highly recommend couples therapy for this issue as well.
And the relationship advice you are looking for is ? V
Your response is too nice. “Let me know if o should get tested”??? Really. Get tested anyway. Girl, you have a right to be mad.