I'll lay it out to you straight.. You BF doesn't get (understand) this boundary thus he doesn't think of it as important. similar to a toddler with a cookie jar. He doesn't see why him taking things in hand is a bad thing, He's been doing this for likely longer than he has known you. its a habit lol.
You set a boundary and he broke it. you gotta decide what to do with that..
But i'd suggest a therapist instead for your insecurity issues.
I'll lay it out to you straight.. You BF doesn't get (understand) this boundary thus he doesn't think of it as important. similar to a toddler with a cookie jar. He doesn't see why him taking things in hand is a bad thing, He's been doing this for likely longer than he has known you. its a habit lol.
You set a boundary and he broke it. you gotta decide what to do with that..
But i'd suggest a therapist instead for your insecurity issues.