This was incredibly manipulative by your wife and her denying it in private with you and then going ballistic now when confronted is incredibly concerning of her behavior. You might see this as a positive outcome, but I don't know man… She's obviously incredibly intelligent given her real chess skills, and I feel like her manipulation here is VERY pre-planned.
Did she even apologize to you? Will she come clean with your son even if chess becomes “her” thing? Not to mention the explosive reaction and hitting you, it's easy as a man to see this as “not a massive deal”, but trust me, it's just as terrible as an explosive and aggressive reaction from a husband to a wife.
Yeah no. I’m Australian. The c-bomb might not be such a shocking word to casually hear but it is zero ok for my partner to call me that. Not as an insult and not as a “mates” nickname. It’s just not appropriate.
My thoughts exactly!
This was incredibly manipulative by your wife and her denying it in private with you and then going ballistic now when confronted is incredibly concerning of her behavior. You might see this as a positive outcome, but I don't know man… She's obviously incredibly intelligent given her real chess skills, and I feel like her manipulation here is VERY pre-planned.
Did she even apologize to you? Will she come clean with your son even if chess becomes “her” thing? Not to mention the explosive reaction and hitting you, it's easy as a man to see this as “not a massive deal”, but trust me, it's just as terrible as an explosive and aggressive reaction from a husband to a wife.
Tread carefully.
Yeah no. I’m Australian. The c-bomb might not be such a shocking word to casually hear but it is zero ok for my partner to call me that. Not as an insult and not as a “mates” nickname. It’s just not appropriate.
On both ends would you say?