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Sounds like he has an aversion to death (probably not the correct term). He might not be comfortable discussing situations where a party might die and brushes it off as a copping mechanism.
Try to have a discussion with him about how he feels about illnesses and the possibility of death.
So a random nobody tells you rumors about your dad's GF who you thought you got along well with and before you ask him if that's true you stand in his face as if you wanted to fight? What were you gonna do to your GF's dad for God's sake? get into a fistfight to prove you were a man and probably get beaten by this war veteran and then what? you messed up big time and you pressed your GF's red button which is why she got so defensive, it's her freakin' dad! You need to grow up and learn from this!
a concerned mother wouldn’t tell her child to abort their wanted pregnancy, she would tell them to leave and offer a safe place.
genuinely, we were not there for the argument. we don’t know the details of the exchange. we understand that there had been historic tension between mother and partner, enough tension that there were arguments. op said that her mother has always wanted them to break up.
I believe from this that it is reasonable to assume that within the argument, the partners words do not indicate that he was trying. to manipulate or isolate, rather to point out that the mothers desire for the end of the relationship is irrelevant.
I think most people here are ignoring the mountains of research that say people with cluster b personality types can online fulfilling lives without hurting people, if they have the proper support (which op’s mother clearly is t)
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What part do you think I should garbage? My explanation as to why it's disrespectful?
I was not rude to her throughout any point of the exchange? I was making sure I wasn't rude to her on the phone or anything she even admits I wasn't
Sounds like he has an aversion to death (probably not the correct term). He might not be comfortable discussing situations where a party might die and brushes it off as a copping mechanism.
Try to have a discussion with him about how he feels about illnesses and the possibility of death.
So a random nobody tells you rumors about your dad's GF who you thought you got along well with and before you ask him if that's true you stand in his face as if you wanted to fight? What were you gonna do to your GF's dad for God's sake? get into a fistfight to prove you were a man and probably get beaten by this war veteran and then what? you messed up big time and you pressed your GF's red button which is why she got so defensive, it's her freakin' dad! You need to grow up and learn from this!
a concerned mother wouldn’t tell her child to abort their wanted pregnancy, she would tell them to leave and offer a safe place.
genuinely, we were not there for the argument. we don’t know the details of the exchange. we understand that there had been historic tension between mother and partner, enough tension that there were arguments. op said that her mother has always wanted them to break up.
I believe from this that it is reasonable to assume that within the argument, the partners words do not indicate that he was trying. to manipulate or isolate, rather to point out that the mothers desire for the end of the relationship is irrelevant.
I think most people here are ignoring the mountains of research that say people with cluster b personality types can online fulfilling lives without hurting people, if they have the proper support (which op’s mother clearly is t)