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Regular dates in a long term relationship are important imo. It’s a way to bond, create special memories, make eachother feel special/reaffirm feelings, keep the romance going, etc. Everyday life together is quality time as well, but just a different kind of quality time. Romancing/courting eachother doesn’t stop after you’ve become exclusive.
I think just going on 2 dates in a year (which you had to make happen completely) is just sad.
Have you told him why this is important to you? What did your conversations about this problem look like and what were the conclusions? What does “spending less time together” look like to him? I’m sure you two should be able to find a common ground of understanding, a compromise.
For both guys and girls your younger more immature selves are so much better and so much worse. On the bad side, the younger we are, the less likely we are to have any clue what we want. We have attraction based on physical characteristics and the better among us select for how we see our crush treat others, but ultimately we don't select based on what we really want from the person. Yet the flip side of the coin is that your first loves, most of us just went with the flow so naturally that it became easy to build rapport and trust on one another that it makes old folks kinda jealous. Neither person is slapping 50 conditions on their love, they're just loving freely as best they can.
As it relates to your guy, I do believe those are Freudian slips. Unfortunately, I also believe that they do NOT express love at who you are, but his hopes given what you've shown so far. He legitimately wants you to be his one, which is a good thing, but he hasn't experienced enough in general or with you to be as reasonably confident as he sounds. Experiencing your flaws while you are on your best effort to attract him are very different flaws than when you become the person he sees every day.
Take her at her word. She’s interested but she can’t commit to being serious and wants to take it slow. If you’re okay with that, take it slow and respect her boundaries. If you aren’t okay with that, then it’s okay for you to leave.
The only thing that matters here is if your fiancé is flirting back
I’m sure you think your fiancé is a catch, that means other women likely do as well. He’s gonna get flirted with. You can’t stop that, it’s pretty much an inevitable part of socializing in the world.
They work together, you can’t expect him to never talk to her again. If you don’t wanna hear about her, that’s super valid, but don’t let an insecurity hurt your relationship
Wow, thank you so much for your articulate and thorough response; I really appreciate it. Some of the things I know what you’re talking about, and other things, I have no clue lol!
Like when you tell me to “start using Linux and learn to navigate command prompt and then start learning some python or something”, I have no idea what you’re talking about! ? ?
That's great, but plenty of people fuck around after a breakup exactly because they're heartbroken and still in love and are trying to forget their ex.
To be clear, I'm not implying that's the case with OPs bf, just a real life thing that happens and disputes your silly comment.
Regular dates in a long term relationship are important imo. It’s a way to bond, create special memories, make eachother feel special/reaffirm feelings, keep the romance going, etc. Everyday life together is quality time as well, but just a different kind of quality time. Romancing/courting eachother doesn’t stop after you’ve become exclusive.
I think just going on 2 dates in a year (which you had to make happen completely) is just sad.
Have you told him why this is important to you? What did your conversations about this problem look like and what were the conclusions? What does “spending less time together” look like to him? I’m sure you two should be able to find a common ground of understanding, a compromise.
For both guys and girls your younger more immature selves are so much better and so much worse. On the bad side, the younger we are, the less likely we are to have any clue what we want. We have attraction based on physical characteristics and the better among us select for how we see our crush treat others, but ultimately we don't select based on what we really want from the person. Yet the flip side of the coin is that your first loves, most of us just went with the flow so naturally that it became easy to build rapport and trust on one another that it makes old folks kinda jealous. Neither person is slapping 50 conditions on their love, they're just loving freely as best they can.
As it relates to your guy, I do believe those are Freudian slips. Unfortunately, I also believe that they do NOT express love at who you are, but his hopes given what you've shown so far. He legitimately wants you to be his one, which is a good thing, but he hasn't experienced enough in general or with you to be as reasonably confident as he sounds. Experiencing your flaws while you are on your best effort to attract him are very different flaws than when you become the person he sees every day.
He’s a garbage human and you should realize how lucky you are to be leaving him.
First cold sore at 9. Got them pretty regularly for years. In the last 20 years I've had 3
This is bullshit.
Please look up machiavellian tendencies. It may explain a lot of his behaviour to you and if it does…RUN!!!!!!
And I feel like half of these posters are making this stuff up to chase sympathy and “you deserve better kween” responses.
You just answered your own question.
We bought them together.
Take her at her word. She’s interested but she can’t commit to being serious and wants to take it slow. If you’re okay with that, take it slow and respect her boundaries. If you aren’t okay with that, then it’s okay for you to leave.
The only thing that matters here is if your fiancé is flirting back
I’m sure you think your fiancé is a catch, that means other women likely do as well. He’s gonna get flirted with. You can’t stop that, it’s pretty much an inevitable part of socializing in the world.
They work together, you can’t expect him to never talk to her again. If you don’t wanna hear about her, that’s super valid, but don’t let an insecurity hurt your relationship
Wow, thank you so much for your articulate and thorough response; I really appreciate it. Some of the things I know what you’re talking about, and other things, I have no clue lol!
Like when you tell me to “start using Linux and learn to navigate command prompt and then start learning some python or something”, I have no idea what you’re talking about! ? ?
Yes
Too bad, so sad. Leave her stupid, cheating ass.
First of all, you need to grow thicker skin.
After the intense trauma to your skin,(which is what happened) it does look bad in the immediate aftermath.
He apologized and did not mean to hurt your feelings.
Be an adult and move on.
That's great, but plenty of people fuck around after a breakup exactly because they're heartbroken and still in love and are trying to forget their ex.
To be clear, I'm not implying that's the case with OPs bf, just a real life thing that happens and disputes your silly comment.
Believe him. Leave.
How about weed? Get stoned out of your minds to ease off the pressure and just confess.
Gorl. Don't pick up the phone….
Nah I'm kidding. Just say we don't have the connection and call it a day.