I’ll talk to my mom about it, i feel like I’m pinning it on my wife but I’m sure my mom will understand. I just hope it fixes the situation with my wife going forward.
Wow, I really didn't think to see it that way. Do you really think it's toxic behavior? That's definitely not what I had intended, but now that you point it out I think you're absolutely correct. I feel like a fool now.
She's definitely no pushover (referring to your second paragraph) by any means, just sort of circumstantially stuck in scenarios that force her to take on what I see as an unhealthy amount of other people's work. I only see it that way because that was where I was at not too long ago, and in my last relationship my girlfriend was borderline abusive which made it so much worse. It really was a bad time in my life and just made me want to die in my sleep.
Please say more things, I am not very smart as you can see. Feel free to pm me if you so wish
I’ll talk to my mom about it, i feel like I’m pinning it on my wife but I’m sure my mom will understand. I just hope it fixes the situation with my wife going forward.
Wow, I really didn't think to see it that way. Do you really think it's toxic behavior? That's definitely not what I had intended, but now that you point it out I think you're absolutely correct. I feel like a fool now.
She's definitely no pushover (referring to your second paragraph) by any means, just sort of circumstantially stuck in scenarios that force her to take on what I see as an unhealthy amount of other people's work. I only see it that way because that was where I was at not too long ago, and in my last relationship my girlfriend was borderline abusive which made it so much worse. It really was a bad time in my life and just made me want to die in my sleep.
Please say more things, I am not very smart as you can see. Feel free to pm me if you so wish