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Sit with him and tell him you need to talk about something serious because you're at your wit's end and seriously considering if your relationship can continue. Then explain to him that you have your own mental health issues but the huge difference is that you are dealing with them with professional help, but you still don't have enough energy to deal with your issues, his issues, and the issues his dad has. Explain to him that you love him and that you can support him but what you can't do, is to carry him. He has to carry himself. He can rely on you to support himself, but not to drag him and you feel that you're being forced to drag him and that he just doesn't want to even try to walk. Tell him that you want to have a relationship with him, not with him and your father. Tell him that you understand that people have families of origin and you're not telling him to forget about his family, but that you're feeling that you're his last priority and that his dad is top priority and you can't continue like that. Tell him that his father is ultimately responsible for his own life, your fiancé is not, if your fiancé feels that he is responsible for the life of his father, he's choosing and the person being chosen is not you, so you'll walk. Make it clear and serious, write it down if you feel that this way he will take it more seriously. And if he promises that things will change, give him a timeline and firmly stick to it, because if you don't, he will drag this for your entire life.
Ideally your fiancé should seek therapy, but rarely does it work when people go to therapy under the command of other people. They just lie to their therapist and they don't do any of the things recommended by their therapist. So, your fiancé has to choose here, who will he choose, his dad, or you? Yes it's an ultimatum and yes they are valid and not a form of manipulation if you're actually willing to leave if the answer is “I choose my dad”. So say it and mean it. Good luck!
Relationships change from time to time. They ebb and flow and go up and down. That's normal. Also, moving in together is a big adjustment to make. Maybe he's still working thru the changes of now sharing his space, his bed, his bathroom, etc. with someone.
You admit you have trust issues. Why not see someone to work thru those? There's a chance you're over-thinking things and letting the invasive thoughts grow roots in your head.