Your husband isn't being honest about his work schedule. If he's there THAT many hours, it's absolutely by choice. So either he's finding a way to remain at work extra hours to avoid the you and the children, or he's finding somewhere to go after work and pretending to be working.
Avoid, avoid, avoid. Block her, don't make any more effort to contact and leave her in your past.
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Your husband isn't being honest about his work schedule. If he's there THAT many hours, it's absolutely by choice. So either he's finding a way to remain at work extra hours to avoid the you and the children, or he's finding somewhere to go after work and pretending to be working.