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Be patient for what? He either wants to be exclusive and see where it goes or he doesnt. Being official is the same as talking but with the added rule of exclusivity. So do you want to be with a guy where he is contemplating if he reaaly wants to be with you, or take a chance at finding a guy that would love to be with you
Lording it over her because it's “your” house isnt feasable, thats like saying if you pay for food you get to pick what other people eat.
Not to mention, it's not his house any more, it's their house now. Like everyone else has said, when you accept someone moving in with you, it becomes a joint living situation, not just the same rules and habits that applied before.
So to add onto this, not in chronological order. She had a very close guy friend named “bob” whom she texts and snapchats regularly. I’ve seen a paragraph or two of them arguing over abortion and her saying he is so sexist, which confused me because she said they were friends and she seemed heated. Well, I saw a post on one of her social media accounts (posted 3 months before we started dating) and it was her with a guy and the caption said happy 4 months of sneaky linking. Which means fucking for those who don’t know. I thought it was funny because it was before me and in the past. I asked who it was (a couple weeks into us dating) out of curiosity only to find out it was bob. She said that 2 months ago he asked her to be exclusive and she said no and then she told him a week later “I don’t want a relationship but we can be friends on your terms” 2 months before we started dating and he basically agreed. They continued to ft every now and then, text often and Snapchat a lot. Long story short I asked her to stop talking to him and she did angrily. Only I found out later that she was wearing a sweatshirt he gave her when we were FaceTiming… a month after they were just friends… and he called her cute a week before we started dating. This is what essentially put me into a downward spiral of questioning everything because I wanted to trust her but I couldn’t.
Like if she were anymore jealous, she would turn into the hulk and smash you in the face real quick.
She is acting very immature, but it comes with the territory when someone is that insecure.
All jealous boils down to is a need not being met.
S’s needs are not being met. Which means she needs to figure out how to stop hurting you and work on her needs.
Op, in the meantime don’t hang out with these two for awhile cause it’s slowly hurting your self esteem to the point you will be at S’s insecure level soon if you don’t take some space right now.
I appreciate your honesty. I agree that we are most definitely incompatible because of that. However, according to her, she is at a stage where she's currently redefining/figuring herself out. So I am seeing if it could work, since she herself is not set in stone about it
Be patient for what? He either wants to be exclusive and see where it goes or he doesnt. Being official is the same as talking but with the added rule of exclusivity. So do you want to be with a guy where he is contemplating if he reaaly wants to be with you, or take a chance at finding a guy that would love to be with you
Lording it over her because it's “your” house isnt feasable, thats like saying if you pay for food you get to pick what other people eat.
Not to mention, it's not his house any more, it's their house now. Like everyone else has said, when you accept someone moving in with you, it becomes a joint living situation, not just the same rules and habits that applied before.
So to add onto this, not in chronological order. She had a very close guy friend named “bob” whom she texts and snapchats regularly. I’ve seen a paragraph or two of them arguing over abortion and her saying he is so sexist, which confused me because she said they were friends and she seemed heated. Well, I saw a post on one of her social media accounts (posted 3 months before we started dating) and it was her with a guy and the caption said happy 4 months of sneaky linking. Which means fucking for those who don’t know. I thought it was funny because it was before me and in the past. I asked who it was (a couple weeks into us dating) out of curiosity only to find out it was bob. She said that 2 months ago he asked her to be exclusive and she said no and then she told him a week later “I don’t want a relationship but we can be friends on your terms” 2 months before we started dating and he basically agreed. They continued to ft every now and then, text often and Snapchat a lot. Long story short I asked her to stop talking to him and she did angrily. Only I found out later that she was wearing a sweatshirt he gave her when we were FaceTiming… a month after they were just friends… and he called her cute a week before we started dating. This is what essentially put me into a downward spiral of questioning everything because I wanted to trust her but I couldn’t.
Fair question. I am going off the assumption that there was previous interaction between them, and they didn't meet and then start dating so quickly.
S is JELLY!
Like if she were anymore jealous, she would turn into the hulk and smash you in the face real quick.
She is acting very immature, but it comes with the territory when someone is that insecure.
All jealous boils down to is a need not being met.
S’s needs are not being met. Which means she needs to figure out how to stop hurting you and work on her needs.
Op, in the meantime don’t hang out with these two for awhile cause it’s slowly hurting your self esteem to the point you will be at S’s insecure level soon if you don’t take some space right now.
I appreciate your honesty. I agree that we are most definitely incompatible because of that. However, according to her, she is at a stage where she's currently redefining/figuring herself out. So I am seeing if it could work, since she herself is not set in stone about it